My FI is coming home!!!!!!!

[EricaG]

I really think that you need to call his parents place if he still is not answering his cell phone, and tell him that he really needs to come home so the two of you can talk. Then if he wants to go back there, he can! I really wish you didn't have to go through this, but I cam glad that we can all be here for you through this difficult time!

 

Why be with someone that can't be there for you? You might as well be alone, so you can count on yourself and not be dissappointed. There is someone out there for you, you are still young and you will find that guy that will want to be a part of your life!

[Yari]

I agree call him at his parents house. Ask what is going on.

 

So sorry this is happening to you!

[loveangel0610]

I decided I'm def. going to call his parents home tomorrow. It's been a week and I'm tired of this. I'm tired of not knowing and I'm really tired of being anxious. I feel anxious all day and I can't stand it. So tomorrow I'm finally going to get some answers or atleast I hope so.

 

I'm so curious to know how this conversation is going to go tomorrow. I'm ready to hear his excuse if he even has one. I know the last time he pulled a stunt like this on me he said he was going through some stuff and didn't want to take it out on me. I told him I'm your partner, you can share anything with me. I let him know that I was there for him if he needed to talk. Guess he didn't listen to me. I just can't believe I'm going through this. It's like just a week ago things were fine and now it's not. It's crazy how one moment can change anything. I don't even know how I'm going to tell him it's over. How do you tell some one it's over when your heart is saying stay and your mind is telling you it's time to go. Man this sucks.

[Banana11]

Stay strong and stick up for yourself. There is no excuse he can give that warrants not calling you.

[Angel]

I've been reading your posts and the updates and I feel for you cause I've been in the same situation with my ex. I am sorry that you have to go through this. You just have to stay true to yourself and stay strong in any decision that you make. You tell yourself that you deserve more (and you do), so he needs to treat you with the respect that you deserve. There is no reason or excuse that he can give you for not calling and letting you know whats up. You two are in a relationship where communication is essential. For him to pull something like that on you is very inconsiderate and selfish on his part. Stick up for yourself and be strong!!! It's going to be hard but you will get through it. You have your family and friends and of course us.

[EricaG]

I am so glad that you are going to call his parents. It will be difficult to talking to him after all this I am sure, but you are strong, and you need to remember that you have to take care of yourself. Wishing you all the best in a not so great situation.

[Yari]

Hugs! I hope the call goes well today. Stay strong sweetie!

[Banana11]

How are you doing? Any updates?

[kerryjbrown]

Oh my....I just read this thread for the first time. I am so sorry for what you have been through over the past week, I cannot even imagine how upset you are. I hope your call today went well and there was a reasonable explanation for his lack of communication (not sure there could be one unless he was hurt and I don't wish that for you!)

We are all here to support you and are wishing you the best!

[loveangel0610]

I wish I had news for you ladies but I don't. I called FI's parents home and no one answered. I even called at 7:30 because I knew every one would be home but they supposedly weren't. I left a message on the answering machine so I hope I get a call back. I was so crushed when no one answered. I just knew that today I would get some answers. I'm so tired of hearing the phone ring and not getting an answer. Uggghhh this is so frustrating. I give up. I'm not calling him any more, I'm not waiting by the phone, and I am damn sure done crying. When he wants to talk he can call me because I'm done.