My FI is coming home!!!!!!!

[-Kate-]

WTF I just got caught up on this thread. He hasn't called in a week?!?! That is beyond rude...it's borderline cruel.

[Yari]

Oh honey I feel so bad for you. I think you really need to see if this relationship is right for you. One week is out right ridiculous! I really feel for you. You have a lot of thinking to do and he better come back on his knees!

[loveangel0610]

I've had a lot of time to think during this past week, shed a lot of tears, and I think I've come the conclusion that it's over. It makes me want to cry to know that it's over but I feel it's what I have to do. There is no reason why he hasn't called me in a week and it's unacceptable. I've put up with this bull shit before and I'm not going to put up with it any more. I know I should have put my foot down in the past but I didn't and now I know better. Now I know that I deserve soooo much more.

[*Heather*]

I'm so sorry you have to go through this You totally don't deserve it, and it's NOT ACCEPTABLE behaviour! I would kick Matie's ass if he did this, and then I'd run far, far away. It's not the type of behaviour that a marriage should be based on. Be strong! If you stand up for yourself, you WILL find someone that deserves you, I promise!

[Yari]

Oh no.

 

Do you know where he is at? Is he at his parents? Can you call there?

[loveangel0610]

Quote:

Originally Posted by Yari Oh no. Do you know where he is at? Is he at his parents? Can you call there?

I think he's at his parents home or atleast that's where he's supposed to be. I could call there I just didn't want to. I know it's what I need to do but I really don't want to have to call their house.

[1elephant]

yuck - i'm sorry you're going thru this... you need to do what's right for you. imoho, telling you he's coming home and then not calling for a week is ridiculous.

 

out of curiousity, do you two live together?

[loveangel0610]

No we don't live together. When he was still here in school he had his own apartment.

[Banana11]

How long have you been together?

[loveangel0610]

We've been together about 2 years. And we've def. had our problems in the past but this time it's different.