My FI is coming home!!!!!!!

[Kat81]

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Originally Posted by loveangel0610 I think I am below bummed. We haven't talked since our little arguement so I have no idea. I really wish it wasn't like this. I so didn't want his coming home to be like this.

Aw I bet. Well don't blame yourself. He is in the wrong. He got you all excited then changed the plan on you without telling you Is he still not answering his phone?

[EricaG]

I am really sorry that all your excitement got squashed like this. He didn't say anything about how long he might be? Is he home for good now? Or does he have to go back?

 

Even though it probably seems like time is dragging right now, he will be home very soon! Keep us posted.

[loveangel0610]

I just tried calling his phone again and he didn't answer . The phone is what started our arguement. On Tuesday I had called him several times (not sure how many) to make sure he was ok since he didn't call me. I started calling at about 10 am until 4 pm and then he called me back fussing. He got on the phone with an attitude saying why was I calling him back to back and I told him because I wanted to know if you were ok. So he keeps on saying that I was trying to sleep and blah blah blah. Mean while I'm thinking some thing happened to him because he didn't call. So I pretty much get fussed at for interupting his precious sleep. I swear he just doesn't get it. I was worried about him like any one else would have been. I just don't understand why he's not answering his phone. It's really starting to bother me and I am trying not to let it.

[loveangel0610]

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Originally Posted by ethrondson I am really sorry that all your excitement got squashed like this. He didn't say anything about how long he might be? Is he home for good now? Or does he have to go back? Even though it probably seems like time is dragging right now, he will be home very soon! Keep us posted.

Nope he said nothing just yelled at me for calling him too much. He's home for good and I'm glad he doesn't have to go back. And thanks I really needed to hear that.

[EricaG]

How far away is he from home? Does he have a lot of relatives there to visit?

 

As for him not getting it, I think it is a common thing for a lot of males to not realize that we care and they need to call us sometimes and let us know if there are changes in the plans! Do you have to work tomorrow? Maybe you should have a nice warm drink of something uncaffinated and head to bed for the night. Then tomorrow will be here before you know it, make his return home even sooner. Try counting the sheep.

[loveangel0610]

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Originally Posted by ethrondson How far away is he from home? Does he have a lot of relatives there to visit? As for him not getting it, I think it is a common thing for a lot of males to not realize that we care and they need to call us sometimes and let us know if there are changes in the plans! Do you have to work tomorrow? Maybe you should have a nice warm drink of something uncaffinated and head to bed for the night. Then tomorrow will be here before you know it, make his return home even sooner. Try counting the sheep.

He's about two hours from here. If I could drive I would have been there. And yes he has a lot of family in OH. His daughters are there as well. I think that's who he really wanted to see and I am more than ok with that. I just wish he would have said some thing first.

No work tomorrow I'm unemployed at the moment and I think me having tons of free time makes it worse. I think I'm going to make a cup of tea and then take a nice warm bath and go to bed. It's been a long day and I'm tired. Thanks again for the support. I don't know what I would do with out the ladies of BDW.

[EricaG]

That's why we are here. We help each other through wedding planning, stress and life issues. Have a good night!!

[Yari]

That just stinks! I would be totally hurt too. I hope he answers the phone and doesn't get mad at you

[loveangel0610]

New day, same stuff. I've called. I've text. I don't even know what to do now. I'm so anxious right now and I can't stand it. I wish he would just answer his phone or call me back. I hate that things feel so up in the air right now. Hopefully I will have better news for you ladies later on today.

[Yari]

Has he always been like this about communication?