My FI is coming home!!!!!!!

[*Heather*]

I'm also wondering how come he just didn't buy more minutes for his phone? Even just like 5 mins so he could call and quickly say "my minutes are gone! I'll call you again as soon as I can!" Or what about an email? Could he have emailed you?

[loveangel0610]

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Originally Posted by Yari So he went to culinary school for 4 months and now he is back. Why did he move in with his parents instead of where he lived prior? You two are planning on moving to Atlanta soon. Is it for a job, school? Sorry I am asking so many questions, I am just trying to give you the best advice.

It's ok I understand. I should have been a little more clear. He started culinary school Jan 2007 and finished April 2008. From April until August he had an externship. When he was here he lived with two roommates. Once he left they got a new one. After his externship we were supposed to be ready to move but I lost my job and we got set back a few months. I moved back in with my parents a while back so there was no way he could stay here. So his only choice was to go back to Akron. The move to Atlanta was a job for him and I had planned on transfering to Georgia State University or my dream school Spelman College for the Spring Semester. It was all planned out.

[loveangel0610]

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Originally Posted by EricaG I am glad that you finally heard from him and that you were able to get a bit of stuff of your chest. Hopefully the conversation later will get the rest taken care of. Just becareful and make sure that he isn't taking you for a ride. There is always a way that he could have called you. If his parents don't have long distance, he could have called collect. Now that he has a job there, does that mean that he is staying there? Why get a job there if he was coming back home? Or is he wanting you to move? I think the two of you really need to talk about a lot of things and get stuff sorted out before you make any permanent decisions. Take care and let us know how things work out for you. Remember, if you need anyone else to talk to, we are always here!!

I knowI told him he could have found a way if he really wanted to. He can't call my parents house collect because my mom doesn't accept them long story. But he could have bought a phone card. I should have been more clear on coming home sorry. He planned to stay in Akron and I was to stay in Pittsburgh until we were ready to move for money reasons. It made no sense to get an apartment for a few months and then have to move again. I def. need to finish my convo with him and think before I make a final decision. And don't worry I will keep you all updated. As soon as I know you all will know.

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Originally Posted by *Heather* I'm also wondering how come he just didn't buy more minutes for his phone? Even just like 5 mins so he could call and quickly say "my minutes are gone! I'll call you again as soon as I can!" Or what about an email? Could he have emailed you?

That's what I was thinking. That's all he had to do was tell me he didn't have any and then I would have just called him on the house phone. He could have emailed me but I know he wasn't thinking on that level. That's something I would think to do not him.

[DanielleNDerek]

Hey Farrah, i finally just got all caught up on this thread. Thank goodness he finally called you but if i were you I would still be pissed. I just think he should of found some way to contact you, payphone, email, whatev. Especially since you haven't seen him in 4 months and you expected to see him last week.

 

BUT, it's your relationship so you have to do what is best for you. I hope you can have a good talk with him later. Goodluck!

[Banana11]

I agree that he should have found some way to contact you. In this day and age, it's not tough to do so if you really want to. IMO his excuses are lame.

[loveangel0610]

Trust me I am still pissed no more like furious. If he really wanted to talk to me he would have found a way. He could have easily asked his mom to use her cell phone I just don't know why he didn't. It comes as no surprise to me. We've been down this road before. He's gone for days with out calling me. I've gone for days with out calling him. It's a bad habit that should have been dealt with a long time ago. And it really got bad when he left for NC. I'm convinced a long distance relationship can either make or break you and it broke us. I don't know if it's broken beyond repair only these next few weeks will tell. FI is coming into Pittsburgh tomorrow so we can have our talk in person. I'm sooo nervous. I'm trying to pick some where we could meet. I would say at my home but my parents are ready to hurt him so that's out (and I don't blame them). I'll figure that out by tomorrow. But most importantly I need to pull my little notes together and decide what I'm going to say. I have an idea but I need to finalize it. Well ladies that's all of an update I have for right now. I'll let you know how tomorrow goes wish me luck!!!

[Yari]

Good luck!!! I hope all goes well.

[KLC77]

I'm just getting caught up on this thread now. I'm so sorry that you've been going through all of this. What a rough week! I hope that everything goes well tomorrow and whatever the outcome, it is something that makes you happy. Good luck.

[DanielleNDerek]

Goodluck 2morrow.

[*Heather*]

Good luck