This is it...

[ACDCDCAC]

like erica says, this leaves you open for your CORRECT "the one". sounds like you have your mind in an amazing place right now, stay positive and keep us updated! there are plenty of gals on here who have been thru the same thing, or similar, believe it or not.

[Jenn3878]

Im so sorry to hear that you are going through all of this! Best of luck to you!!

[jmiranda]

i am so sorry about this...I wish you the best of luck

[sunset78]

Sorry to hear this, but sounds like you made the right choice. Good luck.

[Amarillis]

Rachel,

 

I know how tough this can be ( I was there back in 2003).

 

I know that everyone is telling you that there is light at the end of the tunnel (they are right), you will find happiness when the time is right (they are right), blah blah blah. So there is no way this side of the rainbow that I'll pass on that garbage (even if it is true).

 

Feel everything you need to feel, cry, curse, laugh, yell, scream, and get it out - but most importantly, remember that we are here to support you, be your sounding board, becuase sometimes, it will just help to write it down...

 

Hang in there.

[Karen]

Rachel,

 

I hope you find peace and comfort during this difficult time. But it sounds like you have the perfect frame of mind to make your dreams come true. Some of the worse times/ experiances in my life have actually turned out to be the greatest blessings in my life. I hope every wonderful thing you always wanted (and didn't know you wanted) comes to you!

[Christi]

So sorry to hear this, Rachel! Sounds like you're doing OK though...hang in there and big hugs to you!

[Kristy!]

I'm sorry to hear about this, but I give you a lot of credit for listening to that little voice that was telling you this was not the right thing for you. It still totally sucks though. We're ALL here for you, whatever you need.

[Dbld78]

Rachel.... my best friend is going through the EXACT same thing as you RIGHT NOW too. She canceled her wedding that was supposed to be this September 20th. So I can sympathize with your situation and if you ever need to chat I am more than happy to lend you an ear. Like you she ended their 7 year relationship and is currently dividing up their NEW house as well. But she has also stated that she's never felt so clear or relieved in her life and she sounds the best I've heard her in YEARS.... So you are strong girl for having not gone through with it...

 

Hang in there...

[Celina]

Wow Rachel, I too am sorry for this happening. I hope that you are in a happier and more content state of mind right now. It is a lot to go through and kudos to you for recognizing and putting it out there before you got married. You are so brave and it takes a big person to acknowledge something like this. My prayers are with you.