Strip Club for Bachelor Party?

[nikkianddean]

I said "not sure" as in not sure he would go He has never been to a strip club and doesn't think it's very logical.

 

And, since he bought me my own pole for the house, he already gets the best show in town for free!!!

[PrecisePlans]

why does men having fun seem to equal = naked women......i vote HELL to the NAW!!!! that's completely disrespecful to me. Right before we get married, I'm busy doing last minute stuff for the wedding and invisioning my future with this man, and he's off somewhere having women "sit" on him and putting their boobs in his face. Plleeeaasseee!!! There are other ways to celebrate. I'm certainly not feeling the idea of strippers!!!

 

and not to mention..........spending good money to see naked women, hell no!!! And plus, i'm not sure that FI would be too pleased if I was spending my hard earned money to see a long hard......"you know what" being smacked around in my face....lol

[happyone]

My FI hates strip clubs and my maid of honor/BFF is actually a stripper! I know! He will go because that's the kind of thing guys do at bachelor parties and I could care less. I am not threatened by any of those women. I mean it's their job to flirt.

[amyh]

I think it all comes down to trust and respect. I don't care if he goes, I trust him and he respects me enough not to cross the line (i.e. paying a little visit to the back room.)

[Duchess]

I trust Duke. It's my "man of honor" (he thinks he is anyway) that I don't trust. He told me he was going to get Duke, and I quote, so much tail at his bachellor party. I said, Mike, you want to get uninvited to the event of the year, be my guest buddy. He zipped it up pretty quickly.

[BarefootBride]

Gosh I WISH I was in charge of FI's Bach Party! Hes in the states rignt now and I hope someone throws him a party! Strippers are fine by me! FI is so not into strippers, and he would think it was so gross if one even accidently touched him! I would love to be that fly on the wall! lol

[FYB87]

I don't care. But, I doubt that he does since he doesn't normally go.

[David and Laura]

I said not sure. If I was forced to choose, a strip club is way better than a stripper that comes to the house/hotel room. I have heard many stories about what goes on, and it is not something I would be ok with. I totally trust David, but I definitely don't like the idea of strip clubs. Why? -- Who likes the idea of their boyfriend/fiance/husband watching naked women dance around, let alone getting a lap dance from one. It wouldn't be ok if it was at your home and he was by himself (unless you are into that kind of thing, haha) so why is it ok when he's at a bar with his friends? The whole "he's coming home to me thing" is great, but I think if given the choice most (although not all) women would prefer that their husband not go to strip clubs if they weren't worried about coming off as controlling or insecure if they didn't allow it. Luckily David isn't into strip clubs so that makes things easy.

[jean-marcus]

(first off hey laura... hehehe funny im posting after you)

 

guys will be guys...... personally i dont go to them ( a handful of times when i was like freshman in college ) and the only time these days i see a stripper is at a bachelor party...

 

even if a groom says he wont get one you can count on that one of the other guys will get one as a suprise.. i can gaurantee you that ive NEVER seen a stripper at a bachelor party that i even found attractive (shutters at some of the ones he has seen)... but sure at the clubs there are ones.

 

its as much of a tradition at a bachelor party as strippers at your bachelorette parties (AND DONT TELL ME YOU DONT GET THEM hahahahahahah)

 

REST ASSURED future brides you can trust your FI at the strip clubs. and if you dont feel you can trust him then you might want to rethink things

 

so my vote is sure why not and i agree a strip cub is much better then the ones that come to the hotel.