How to word "Will you be my Bridesmaid?" cards

[ericaandsy]

So I loved the idea of sending my future bridesmaids cards in the mail to ask them to be in our wedding party. Only problem is I DONT want them to feel obligated incase they are not able to make the commitment to come with us to Mexico. I'm sure there are girls on here who have given these cards before..So I am just curious as how to word it in a cute way that I would love for them to be my bridesmaid but without the pressure?

Any suggestions??

Thanks you girls ROCK!!

[becks]

Hmmm.... I'm not sure. Maybe something like "even if you can't be there in person, I know you'll be there in spirit"?

[ACDCDCAC]

i know morgan had honorary BM's, maybe she will have a good idea. (in case they cant go, that way they will still feel special.)