Worries about everyone(us too) flying to our DW! Anyone else?

[Jen5372]

Ok I know I know-'airlline travel is safer than driving". I do. I have flown before. Ive been to vegas 10 times-with the normal travel delays but I still worry. WHY Im not as worried about me and FI_Im worried about all the guests-especially my sister.

 

My sister decided over the 4th of July holiday to come (she has 2 small awesome kids) so there was some arranging so she could go. I worry about her and everyone else. GOD FORBID ( pray, knock on wood) something happens to anyone coming to our wedding.

 

I think I am writitng this to ease my own mind-so feel free to ignore. I also think I need to hear "everything will be ok". Why-dont know-maybe I am crazy?? LOL

 

I just worry-like god forbid something happened-it would be all my fault for having to be "selfish and have a DW". yes Ive heard it all-and knowing my family I'll hear it some more.

 

I guess IM just venting my thoughts and worries-I just want everyone to get there safely, on time as best as possible and have a good weekend!!

 

Does this sound crazy? I havent seen any threads on people worried about the travel aspect of a DW so i wonder-am I alone in worrying?

 

I partly belieeve when its your time to go-you go-no matter how-but I stillworry for everyone else coming!!

 

If you read this ramble-thanks!

[Maura]

girlfriend, i am telling you straight up:

 

EVERYTHING WILL BE FINE, NO WORRIES

[Yari]

I think it is normal to feel like this. Everything will be just fine.

[JennyK]

*pass the xanax* it's ok You and your guests have a better chance of getting hit by lightning.

[Erica053009]

Honestly god forbid anything ever happened at any time but you can not live your life like that and if you think positive you will be fine. No worries and no guilt you deserve your DW EVERYTHING will be fine...My brother his wife and my niece and nephew are my life and I refused to get married without them there I am not going to lie it has crossed my mind but as quickly as it popped in the quicker I shake it out of my thoughts.

[samanthag]

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Originally Posted by JennyK *pass the xanax* it's ok You and your guests have a better chance of getting hit by lightning.

I agree with JennyK, I've been a flight attendant for 12 years and I'm telling you things will be JUST FINE! It's very normal to feel this way but just pray & believe!

[LadyCheese]

I think like this at times when it comes to flying. everything will be alright. Its natural to have that "what if" feeling when it comes to flying.

[ehegwer]

I get on an airplane 2-3x a month. No worries here.

[Jen5372]

Thanks. I think I was just sitting home alone today-thinking way too much. I mean i should be more worried about people getting IN on time! God knows thats a rare occurence! Thanks for the comments-it was nice to have them to read and slap my stupid ass out of it! SLAP SLAP!