I think that I’m going to explode if I don’t get this out…

[JulieG]

My pregnancy test was also a faint line, and when I went to my doctor she also told me it was very faint, but that was just because it was so early on in the pregnancy and I am now 34 and a half weeks, so I am sure that is all that is going on.

 

With respect to the drinking, I think most of us did/do that before we know we are pregnant, if we are not actively trying, why would we even think to not drink, so do not worry about that.

 

I wanted to go to a wedding in Scotland last weekend and my doctor told me that flying was fine as well because I was healthy enough. My husband on the other hand did not want to chance and it really did not like the idea of me flying. So, it will be fine to fly as long as all is well with you. I do agree though that you should try to move your wedding up or back and see if you can just use the same deposits, I am sure the resort would let you. Talk to your travel agent and find out your options before you make a decision.

 

Congratulations!!!

[Linzibella]

THANK YOU SOOOO MUCH EVERYONE! I knew that sharing with all of you would make me feel better. Your words of encouragement and support are so helpful.

 

All I want to do is plan -whether I should move the wedding, what to do about my dress (even though I know that it's really a trivial thing in the grand scheme of things), who to tell first and how to tell them, and even what the baby's name should be -even though I know that I'm getting WAY ahead of myself.

 

My mind just can't stop racing though. It's going to be a long wait for the ultrasound and my next doctors appointment.

 

Anyways, thanks again for your thoughts and messages. It means a lot. I will keep you up to date as I find out more.

 

Hugs for everyone

 

You ladies are the best!

[KLC77]

Oh my gosh, the days probably can't go by fast enough until you can go to the dr again. Don't worry about wedding stuff. Everyone will be so happy you are pregnant they won't mind any changes. Good luck!

[Jessica]

I have nothing really major to add, but I didn't want to read and run.

 

I do hope everything works out! Try not to worry about it too much and just take it easy (believe me, I know this is easier said than done). Good luck with everything.

[Banana11]

How did your appointment go?

[Sandra E.]

Congratulations! I agree with everyone check on the traveling date. Even though your doctor cleared you up, you certainly don't want to be in a foreign country and have any kind of complications.

[Martha]

Okay, I can kinda relate to most of this. I also have PCOS and we never thought we could have babies. I only have 1-3 periods a year and never know when/if I ovulate. Oh and I only have 1 1/2 ovaries, I had to get one removed because a tumor was growing on it. I also have hypothyroidism and am insulin resistant.

 

To make a long story short. I got pregnant on Valentine's Day but didn't find out until 6 weeks later, after I had gotten really drunk once or twice.

 

I had to cancel my dream wedding dress and reorder a different one that I don't love. I will be almost 6 1/2 months pregnant when I get married next week. That's about the cut off to fly internationally. If you are getting married internationally, you really shouldn't be flying and really I don't think you should fly that late in your pregnancy.

 

 

Can you postpone your wedding or move up the date a few months?

 

I am sure you are stressed, just try to take it easy. Oh and the only reason I ever too a PG test was because my boobs were sore and swollen...It wasn't until I was later along that I got nauseus and was sleepy all the time.

 

Good luck!

[yamille]

Of course your mind is racing! Wow. That's alot to think about.

I hope that you find peace suring the waiting period and liek someone already said - what will be, will be.

[starchild]

Wow that's a lot to deal with but congrats, we like babies! It will work out even if that means altering the wedding. Hang in there!!!

[Jenn]

Congrats!!! I know the waiting is hard, but try to relax. As others have said, faint positive pregnancy tests are usually because it is early and the hormone levels are still low.

 

Wait until you have a little more information, but I would say you should try to either move up your date or postpone it. Flying late in your third trimester is risky... especially internationally! Ann was stuck in California for how many weeks?