HELP - do I ask my BM to step down??

[jajajaja]

She's your friend right? Just have a little chat. 10 years of friendship is a lot to throw away over some miscommunication.

[BermudaBride922]

No, she is the one that just go married. Its why I'm more offended then usual because I did so much for her wedding. And at the end of the day I really just want to know whether she is going or not. I feel like I have been a good bride and not asking a lot (I'm not having a shower and the bachlorette will be onboard)!

[stacey]

Maybe she is just really wrapped up in her own world. Its easy to do when you are getting married. I think that having a heart to heart is the best idea. Just ask her what her plans are and then go from there.