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[Copita]

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Originally Posted by STACEY You should have put your new phone # 1-800-go-Fuckyourslef HAhaha

LOL. True. She's still my cousin though. I wrote her an email because there iS NO way I could have conveyed politeness via the phone! I wanted to be like, ARE YoU FUCKING CRAZY!!!!

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Originally Posted by becks Dear me! Call the scientific community because we have found a woman with a set! I think your next step is to just let her know that if they won't be attending the wedding, would she please send the FG dress back to you because so-and-so are booked and bringing their lovely daughter with them and you're going to reassign the FG duties to her.

Luckily, I have the FG dress & accessories and was going to take it with me to the wedding to give it to her there. So no loss there except I spent money that I won't get back cause I can't return it. I bought it so long ago.

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Originally Posted by Hartyt509 My advice bin the flower girl and tell her to piss off!!!

I will have to find a new flower girl. It's not the FG's fault, it's the mom acting like a ding dong
Who knows if they'll even come to my wedding, but again, totally presumptious on the mom's part! ICK!

[CJEB]

I would tell her, no because I've not budgeted for it!

[shellb]

So rude, sometimes I seriously wonder what goes through people heads.

 

If worse comes to worse and she does not come and you can't find another flower girl to replace her, could you sell the dress and accessories to at least recoup some of what you spent on it? It would be a shame for some little girl not to get to wear a cute little flower girl dress.

[Copita]

All right, ladies, here's the update:

She never emailed me back. But my mother spoke with her and her mom (my aunt), and told them flat out, I'm not paying for anything of them and how could she be so rude as to flat-out tell me she thought it was only "logical" for me to do so. So she told my mother she was going to "try to find a way to come" but that the other people she planned on bringing "probably will not be able to come." UM, WHAT THE FUCK SHE SERIOUSLY EXPECTED ME TO PAY FOR FIVE OTHER PEOPLE!!!!!!!!!!! And my mom said, That's fine but it's ridiculous for you to think that E & J would have paid for all those people.

GO MOM! I thought that was so funny. So as is, I gues she may come, but maybe not? Who knows but at least it was made very clear to her where I stand. ANd how assy is it that she couldn't even confirm that she got my email? WTF is that That is RUDE!!!!!!!!! I hate when people blatantly blow you off. At this point, I'm like why even come to my wedding if you're gonna act like a child and not even respond to my damn email!!!

[Yari]

Go mom! That is great.

[Chiquita]

Yay for your mom!!

 

Hopefully you still get your little flower girl.. but the mom you can do without!

[Hartyt509]

I love your mum lol