My FSIL's guest... AKA why I don't have to pay for fireworks at the wedding.

[Chiquita]

I have to admit, I can't wait to hear how all this pans out!! I would love to be a fly on the wall when the FIL's find out! You will definitely have to keep us posted.. heh

[Maura]

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Originally Posted by becks I am all set to look at them and say, "guess what... I'm getting married. You all need to shut up and let me have a wonderful time. And if you can't do that, than I'd like you to leave."

hahaha rebecca, knowing you, i can TOTALLY picture you saying this, and all of them looking at you for a minute with their mouths hanging open... in my head, you also say that cute "buh-bye" you tend to say too when you're annoyed haha

[ChristinaH]

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Originally Posted by becks It's funny. I totally don't care that there's going to be a massive blow up. I am all set to look at them and say, "guess what... I'm getting married. You all need to shut up and let me have a wonderful time. And if you can't do that, than I'd like you to leave." Because, being a big Italian family, there's always a bit of drama at family dinners and such. Normally, I just sit and watch, but at my wedding, I get to tell them to put a sock in it. Mmmmmm... so sweet...

Wow - you're a good person to be prepared for this. And for allowing him to come.

I have a somewhat similar situation in which one of my girl friends, who has been having an affair with a married man for 6 years and he wants to come to my wedding. He has not even left his wife - and he has 4 kids with his wife! I told my girl friend - who is still married but finally left her husband last year - that the boyfriend is not invited and I'm not comfortable with him coming . She has to come alone because even though she's still not divorced, I don't want her husband coming either. The boyfriend says he'll have left his wife by the time my wedding comes around, but my friend is nuts if she believes that - it's been 6 years!

Anyway - good luck with your situation. Sounds like some seriously juicy drama.

[Kat81]

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Originally Posted by ChristinaH Wow - you're a good person to be prepared for this. And for allowing him to come. I have a somewhat similar situation in which one of my girl friends, who has been having an affair with a married man for 6 years and he wants to come to my wedding. He has not even left his wife - and he has 4 kids with his wife! I told my girl friend - who is still married but finally left her husband last year - that the boyfriend is not invited and I'm not comfortable with him coming . She has to come alone because even though she's still not divorced, I don't want her husband coming either. The boyfriend says he'll have left his wife by the time my wedding comes around, but my friend is nuts if she believes that - it's been 6 years! Anyway - good luck with your situation. Sounds like some seriously juicy drama.

WOW sounds like some drama on your part too... She isn't going to sneak him down there is she?

[JennyK]

beck - you guys should get it taken care of before your wedding though.. you don't want drama on your wedding day...

[DanielleNDerek]

this is gonna get interesting! can you say DRAMA