Destination second wedding guilt?

BarefootBride · May 10, 2008

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Originally Posted by Debs

The people who REALLY want to be there to celebrate with you will find a way. Others will not. That's just the way it is.

Turns out most of our 'friends' who were excited to find out we were getting married were more interested in the party and free booze than the fact that we were getting married and dedicating our lives to each other. Our priority was to go away together for a honeymoon, as we have never even been away together.

You have to set your priorities. Ours were clear from the get-go.

What I really hated was the guilt trips my friends tried to put on Chris and I. Brutal.

Debs, did we see pictures of your wedding

I cant remember.

MRR16 · November 18, 2010

So glad to have found this thread. This is 2nd marriage for him and I. I have 2 sons (21yrs and 17yrs) and at first we thought we would just have a DW with the four of us because we were both feeling the guilt thing too. But I know I dont want to share this day without my parents and siblings and neither does he, so thank you to everyone that posted on this thread.