"Friend" Vent

[Copita]

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Originally Posted by LadyCheese she is a downer, unfortunately bc if she wasnt she would be a fun person to be around...she asked me if i rcvd her rsvp response and she stated she felt bad, etc...but i told her "no problem, you will miss a wonderful occassion, wish you couldve been there but I'll bring back pictures to show you"...i think she expected me to be angry but i didnt give her the satisfaction of knowing that it did upset me a little....oh well, i'm over it now...lol Thx for the input by the way

Good for you for not letting her have the satisfaction!
Maybe she expected you to fawn all over her coming to your wedding! Not so!
You are going to have a blast with your very happy friends who aren't "debbie downers" --haha--I love that term!
Listen to this one... my friend kept talking up how she was so excited to come to my wedding and couldn't wait to buy her ticket. Well I sent her all the STDate and invite info and she hasn't said a word to me since. I even invited her over for drinks and she never responded! WTF? People are so weird!
Crazytown!
Who cares though. Fun fiesta times await us!

[LadyCheese]

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Originally Posted by cmmdee Good for you for not letting her have the satisfaction! Maybe she expected you to fawn all over her coming to your wedding! Not so! You are going to have a blast with your very happy friends who aren't "debbie downers" --haha--I love that term! Listen to this one... my friend kept talking up how she was so excited to come to my wedding and couldn't wait to buy her ticket. Well I sent her all the STDate and invite info and she hasn't said a word to me since. I even invited her over for drinks and she never responded! WTF? People are so weird! Crazytown! Who cares though. Fun fiesta times await us!

I agree, people can be weird sometimes...I havent heard from my MOH in almost 3wks!! Whats wrong with everyone...avoiding someone is not the answer! If somethings up, then speak up instead being cowardly about it. Oh well, fun fiesta time is right! Cheers!

[Copita]

^^ Yeah avoiding people is NOT the answer!!!

 

Have you talked to the co-worker again?

Update on my friend...she STILL hasn't talked to me. Even after I invited her out. Weird!

[LadyCheese]

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Originally Posted by cmmdee ^^ Yeah avoiding people is NOT the answer!!! Have you talked to the co-worker again? Update on my friend...she STILL hasn't talked to me. Even after I invited her out. Weird!

Well Ive spoken to my coworker, she emails me almost everyday and asks me how my wedding plans are going so I'm good there. however, its been almost a month and I havent heard from my MOH STILL!! And I just refuse to call her, am I wrong? I'm stubborn, thats the Taurus in me...but back on April 4th thru april 8th I sent her an email (about booking, just to get an idea of when she will book), texted her and even left her a voicemail. to this day she hasnt attempted to make contact with me. Even last week i sent a text to her and the other BMs to let them know that a fellow BM was going to be calling to inquire on certain things...maybe MOH was offended by this(?). She shouldnt be...if BM continuously offers to help me and MOH hasnt done that, then I take it as MOH is too busy with her life to help so I let BM help out with some things. Needless to say MOH never responded to that text message either. I dont know what gives...I need to vent here bc if I tell FI he will call her and it wont be pretty...lol.

when was the last time you tried to make contact with your friend?

[Hartyt509]

I've given up with mine to be truthful, don't contact them just let it go and move forward its all you can do. Then when they ring and ask if everything is ok give them it between the eyes lol well thas my plan anyway lmao