Reasons I regret asking my sister to be my MOH (LONG vent)

[Bride010101]

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Originally Posted by Nrvsbride I love this idea, its perfect! You avoid drama at all costs (I'm a huge fan of that, I hate confrontations). You will keep peace with your family and get the support you deserve! YAY!

Exactly my thought! Congrats on a great solution.

[Yvette]

I totally agree! I don't think you are asking too much out of her. If she didn't want the responsibility she shouldn't have said yes in the first place. I say if you want to demote her, do it! No need to stress about it.

 

 

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Originally Posted by FutureMrsB So sorry you are going through all this now Maura. She really sounds like a immature brat. If I were you, I would demote her. If she decides to participate she can be a plain BM. You deserve to have a great MOH, not someone who can't even commit to coming.

[LadyCheese]

I'm so late on this thread...when I read that IM, my jaw dropped...I cant believe the lack of support your sister (and family) has shown...and I sympathize with you bc Ive been dealing with similar issues in a way. However, it looks like the other ladies have helped you make a decision on how to handle your sisten and I totally agree with the "matron of honor" idea!! best of luck Maura...I really hope this will be the end of the family drama.

[kr3611]

That's rough. We've encountered a similar family situation..just try to remember what's really important - you and him. As for your sister, you can't change her but you can change your reaction to her. Could you just have her as a bridesmaid or ask one of your other bridesmaids to be a backup MOH for you?

[becks]

Maura - sheer genius!!! Love the Matron of Honor role for your BF!!!!

 

Excellent!!!!