Attention All Members...please Read!

[crawford2B]

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Originally Posted by Nrvsbride I don't think anyone on here should worry about being sarcastic. A lot of us are super sarcastic (myself included) and I think anyone with common sense can tell when someone is clearly joking. No one should feel scared to post their ideas or opinions, the purpose of this message was not to censore people. We want to hear opinions. I'm sure you all know that I'm referring to situations where someone is being blatantly rude. No one panic and start editing their posts, this didn't happen, I just wanted to remind everyone of how great we are as a forum. We want to be able to be honest with each other, everything out of our mouths doesn't have to be soft and fuzzy but we do still have to be considerate of other people's feelings. And regarding the hot pink sash...LOL. It looks great. I should have been more clear in my post. I didn't mean that telling someone that their sash doesn't look good is constructive criticism. I meant moreso if you had asked "Does my highlighter yellow dress match with the hot pink sash?" and people gave you their honest opinions and told you that they liked it better w/o the hot pink sash. Your dress however looked fabulous with the hot pink sash!

Thank you! Like I said before it was just so funny that you said that and I had my pink sash out in full force! I don't know what I would do without this forum!

[rodent]

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Originally Posted by starchild HAHA...yep, that's the key to forum etiquette. Throw a little "no offense" or "IMO" in there and you can insult people left and right! Like this - IMO I would never have my wedding at the X Resort, they do 78 weddings before noon. My wedding will be unique since it's not at a wedding factory like the X. Plus the food is bad and once I saw seaweed in the ocean. I would never ask my guests to travel to a place like that. No offense, just my opinion ) (LOL)

Exactly! Usually if something starts with "no offense, but..." there is a good chance it's offensive.

The stuff in between the "no offense" and "that's just my opinion" still needs to be respectful.

Or you need a really good smiley to make it alright

[shellb]

Thank you for posting! I loved the comment about wedding factories, LOL, I believe the one we've chosen might be considered one of them by some.

 

It's so true, we all have different tastes, budgets and you may never know what the reasons are behind a choice someone makes. I know mine were multiple including having to have a place big enough to keep my two siblings apart for the majority of the week, family issues, gotta love them. I'd rather go get all my teeth pulled then have to choose a resort again.

 

I enjoy this forum so much, the ideas, the humour, the advice, the helpfulness of it members, it's organized...I could go on forever.

 

And BTW, I love hot pink....it rocks!

 

Michelle

[proti007]

Very well put. It can be very easy to "hide behind the screen" and forget that someone is reading what you write, as a person (and bride!).

[mrsgreene2011]

Very nice, well said. I can't believe people would be that negative on here. I love this site because it is so positive and I feel like we are all family in the sense that we are experiencing a monumental event in our lives. I hope people don't ruin that!

[LisaMatterni]

Very very well said. We should really help each other especially for those who are planning to get married anywhere they would like to. It's nice to help other people here.

[LandG]

Good post!

[cbandemer]

This is a great post

[WeddingMay]

Exactly...this is the most supportive site! I love it!