1 less bridesmaid.. ugh!

[JennyK]

So my mom calls me yesterday to tell me I got a phone call saying that one of my bridesmaids (my cousin Sara) can't be in the wedding. Why? Because her sister, who is closer in age to me, is jealous! I'm kinda bummed out about this bc I didn't think it'd be such a big issue. I come from a very old world Portuguese family. My aunt (Sara's grandmother) would talk so much crap if I didn't include either her or her sister. So I thought I was doing the right thing by asking her to be a bridesmaid. I do get along really well with her so no one "forced" me to ask her. I don't get it, what if she had 5 sisters. Would I have to have asked all 5?! LMAO wtf!!!!?

[Kat81]

That's ridiculous! Oh well, guess you didn't need her anyway!

[boscobel]

Wow, sometimes people are just crazy. But why couldn't she call you herself? That's weird in itself.

[JennyK]

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Originally Posted by carly Wow, sometimes people are just crazy. But why couldn't she call you herself? That's weird in itself.

Her mom called my mom lol I guess she was embarassed to tell me. Her mom said she felt bad that her sister was jealous..and so that there's no problems between her daughters, Sara just wouldnt be in my wedding. Ridiculous!

[Yari]

That is so crazy, but at least it's really no big deal for you to not have her in the wedding.

[JennyK]

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Originally Posted by Yari That is so crazy, but at least it's really no big deal for you to not have her in the wedding.

nah.. I already had 8 girls.. now it's 7 (and if my SIL who is my MOH doesn't stop being a beeotch) I might be down to 6 haha

[Kat81]

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Originally Posted by xJuicyJx nah.. I already had 8 girls.. now it's 7 (and if my SIL who is my MOH doesn't stop being a beeotch) I might be down to 6 haha

aww you poor thing...

[jmill130]

So sorry... but it is better that it happened now that in 10 months! Hang in there!

[Hartyt509]

Think of the cash you'll save lol

[Jacqueline]

That really blows! Why can't people just be happy for those who are getting married instead of trying to throw wrenches into it. Like many on this forum say, weddings can bring the worst out in people.