Possible family conflict with wedding date?

[ticia277]

Go ahead with your plans and send out your save the dates. Don't change anything for anyone, especially when he's not yet engaged. Who knows if his girlfriend will even say yes?

 

If you make your plans and send the save the dates and he then goes and gets engaged and plans his wedding a month before yours, people will automatically think he's a fool for doing it. So stick to your plans.

[sunnydaes]

that is crazy! he is so rude!!!

do not change your wedding date, in fact get on the ball and mail out your save the dates. He sounds like he is jealous of your situation. I guarantee that he is not going to be able to have a "lavish" wedding and fly everyone out in your big family. He has no idea what all this costs and how much it ends up being..I wouldn't even worry about him he sounds like all talk!

[~*petals*~]

Thanks ladies! :-) My parents said the same thing... he's not engaged yet & I am... so I shouldn't worry about what he may or may not do.

[Hartyt509]

Don't change anything for him the cheek!

 

Just ignore everything he's saying and do what you want to do - look at it this way if he does end up doing it just before you you'll save on inviting him lol

[~*petals*~]

for the update...

[Maura]

hahaha, see? arent you glad you have us?

 

sucks for your cousin but thats what ya get for rushing into a marriage with a girl who's a beotch that forces you to buy an engagement ring with your first paycheck!

[kerryjbrown]

I am sorry for your cousin, but glad this all worked out for you! Now you can focus on all your DIY and fabulous to be wedding!

[~*petals*~]

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Originally Posted by Maura hahaha, see? arent you glad you have us?

LOL- exactly! This board is the best!

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Originally Posted by Maura sucks for your cousin but thats what ya get for rushing into a marriage with a girl who's a beotch that forces you to buy an engagement ring with your first paycheck!

And you know that's partially why they fell out too... He got the ring instead of paying bills & realized there was NO way they could pull off the wedding they wanted so soon. So he tried to talk to her about postponing their future wedding and she went totally ballistic!

[Hartyt509]

I love karma pmsl

[becks]

Wow. Sad for your cousin. But I'm so glad you didn't move things just to accomodate his bitchy ex.