GRRRR... EX GF's. and GF's

[jean-marcus]

so finally able to just walk away from this last one i was dating... ive had enough of those head games and childish behaviour and drama....

 

seriously... is it that hard to find a woman who has a level head on her shoulders, void of SERIOUS emotional baggage and issues, and with somewhat moral standards, and some kind of direction in life

 

im telling you the women here in seattle (minus the ones on bdw who are already taken of coursssse) are all nut jobs...

 

here is pretty much the basic low down of the last ones

1. compulsive liar (didnt even know her real name or that she had a kid and was still married)

2. completely lacking of self esteem and accusing me of cheating on her constnatly (when ive never even thought of cheating on a girlfriend in my life)

3. severe anxiety attacks (and also i think slightly bi polar)

4. EXTREMELYYYY bi-polar and a raging alcoholic

5. plays head games like a 15 year old high school chick and wouldnt know what a healthy relationship is if it punched her in the face

 

why do they all start out so sane and then like you hit that one month mark and BLAMOOOOOOO you get kicked in the nuts by the psycho side hahah

 

 

HELP MEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

[Kat81]

From the stories I hear from my FI and my good guy friends. Seems like a lot of girls have major issues. You will find "the one" though and it will be so worth all the losers in the process. As silly as this sounds have you tried internet dating? I know a lot of people (including me) have found love that way. As much as you travel it wouldn't be hard to meet someone from anywhere. You should give it a shot.

[Maura]

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Originally Posted by jean-marcus 1. compulsive liar (didnt even know her real name or that she had a kid and was still married)

how does that happen??

[jean-marcus]

oh i dont discriminate on any kind of dating.. i mean i dont "date " too often ill just meet someone anywhere. i dont care if its through a friend or on the net or at a wedding (good thing im a wedding photographer huh heheh) or WHEREVER.... its just every woman i find myself attracted to in the begining ends up being a total crack head... i think its because at first i just see their fun up side... which i love because i need someone who is spontaneous and loves to go have fun and enjoy life... but then later i find their down side hidden and its so bad that you cant look past it. or embrace the flaws. i know that no one is perfect.. i dont want someone perfect... but i want someone SANE hahaha

[Kat81]

You need to come to Texas. I'll hook ya up with some saneish hot chicks

[Spazz]

I know you've probably heard it 1000 times, but you will find someone. Sometimes it takes going through a lot of losers to find "the one". You're a great guy and any girl would be lucky to have you.

 

I've never tried internet dating, but I know a bunch who have met their SOs, including my cousin who has been married for 3 years with a baby on the way!

[jean-marcus]

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Originally Posted by mauraw how does that happen??

ohhhh.... she was either the biggest genius of all time to keep all her storys straight

OR she was the most insane woman ever.

she was spinning such intricate stories and lies to me that it was impossible to even question anything she was saying.

she should run for president HAHA

[jean-marcus]

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Originally Posted by Kat81 You need to come to Texas. I'll hook ya up with some saneish hot chicks

ya. know.. i do love those southern girls... always so sweet and pretty and wholesome... (well in public)


texas isnt really for me ... maybe arizona haha

[Kristy!]

I don't envy what you guys have to deal with. Girls can be crazy sometimes! But when you do find Ms. Right, you will appreciate her SO much more because of all the psychos you've had to deal with. Hang in there!

[jean-marcus]

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Originally Posted by froggie1013 I don't envy what you guys have to deal with. Girls can be crazy sometimes! But when you do find Ms. Right, you will appreciate her SO much more because of all the psychos you've had to deal with. Hang in there!

you have no ideaaaaa the issues us guys have to sort through....

guys are just as messed up in the head but its so easy to read through them... i mean if you see a guy who's all suave and saying all the right things and buying you drink after drink in a bar OBVIOUSLY he just wants sex... not tough to figure that out. and if he drives a porche but still lives at home "because he is helping take care of his mother" then obviously he is a looser who wastes all his money on a flashy car...

but women are so sneaky and hide all their flaws and insane wacky issues its not fair... why cant women be easier to read.