HELP!!! FI can't dance!!!

[S2BLennon]

PS- the "crush and cuddle" isn't something you want to look back and see that you did on your wedding day.

 

But I will give you all professional advise that your FI WILL NOT no matter how close you are, want to take lessons from you, advice / be tricked into "practice". They will figure it out and usually feel less than adequate. Men hate to think that they can't do something and for themto hear it from the one they love- forget it, even though they would never admit it!

 

BUT - they will take the advice and learn from a stranger, you need a middle man, you stay the nice person and he learns something in the meantime!

[rodent]

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Originally Posted by S2BLennon PS- the "crush and cuddle" isn't something you want to look back and see that you did on your wedding day. But I will give you all professional advise that your FI WILL NOT no matter how close you are, want to take lessons from you, advice / be tricked into "practice". They will figure it out and usually feel less than adequate. Men hate to think that they can't do something and for themto hear it from the one they love- forget it, even though they would never admit it! BUT - they will take the advice and learn from a stranger, you need a middle man, you stay the nice person and he learns something in the meantime!

Whats crush & cuddle?

[DanielleNDerek]

Derek steps all over my feet when we dance. It's awful. I wish he would just stand there and sway back and forth. it'd be easier on my feet.

[plumsugar]

FI doesnt have rhythm when it comes to formal "partner" dances either. He is a mess when it comes to Salsa, Merenge, or Bachata. I always end up sad for my feet (and music loving heart)!

 

In any case, we're not going to make our first dance a big production by going to lessons. I think the more you do that, the more fudged the end result comes out because of your nerves, excitement, or if one person hates to dance/cant dance to begin with!

 

We have just decided to choose a song that's extra special to us and wing it; be ourselves instead of counting steps...

We're not masters, but we dont really suck when dancing romantical songs either

 

Side note: I do want to do the practicing thing with candles & wine thing though! Great idea ladies! It would help with pulling off a spanish song at our wedding without walking away in a cast lol!

[S2BLennon]

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Originally Posted by Morgan Whats crush & cuddle?

The hands on shoulders and wrapped around waist, heads down into one another and sway back and forth in a cricle! LOL

[Betsy]

Honestly Aaron can't dance either and that is what I love about him! It is so cute when he gets up on a dance floor with me (of course it is only when he is WASTED) but he tries so hard!!