The evil EX!!!

[Yari]

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Originally Posted by mauraw i just remembered i had a friend who went thru something similar.... she took the photo and posted something on craigslist with the photos the bitch had sent, and posted the story about how this woman must be desperate with a capital D, and put the ad in the women looking for men section, with the girls actual phone number. the girl never sent another photo again after that.

That is awesome!!!

[Mel]

Oh how that sounds familiar... FI ex was forced to come to AZ from WA and bring their son for a visit, long long long story about custody battle, but anyway. She and her FI were picking up Brent (FI son) and she was complaining about how she got sunburned at the Desert Museum. She dropped her sleeve so he could see the tan lines and right in front of me and HER FI she shows my FI her boob. And simply replies opps. At this same time she is pregnant with a child with her FI.

 

She has also had FI baby blanket since their son was born. FI asked for it back and she finally gave it back. I swear she had to have washed the thing in her perfume. Even after four or five washes I still can't get the smell out.

 

She likes to send "just wanted to let you know how special you are to me" e-mail crap that gets forwarded around. And she always includes her first husband, who she has her oldest son with, my FI (her second husband), several other male friends and her FI. And if you are keeping up that makes three kids from three different fathers from three different marriages.

 

NUTCASE...and like many have said before it doesn't get any better. My only advice is to be careful of how you FI approaches the topic of only calling when it is in regards to his son. I know the crazy ex that we have to deal with literally will not allow FI to see or speak to his son if he crosses her wrong in any way and she basically disappears for several months to the point that we have to have welfare checks by the police done on his son to make sure he is ok. This has been an ongoing battle that we have brought up in court but they always manage to take her side b/c she comes up with some cock-a-meme excuse of why she kept his son away. Mostly because "I offered for him to talk to his daddy but he didn't want to so I didn't force him to call and I don't make my son do anything he doesn't want to do"

 

Just think when the child turns 18 no more. You don't have to give her your new numbers or addresses or emails. AHHHHH only 13 more grueling and long years for me!

[Infinity22]

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Originally Posted by Mel Oh how that sounds familiar... FI ex was forced to come to AZ from WA and bring their son for a visit, long long long story about custody battle, but anyway. She and her FI were picking up Brent (FI son) and she was complaining about how she got sunburned at the Desert Museum. She dropped her sleeve so he could see the tan lines and right in front of me and HER FI she shows my FI her boob. And simply replies opps. At this same time she is pregnant with a child with her FI. She has also had FI baby blanket since their son was born. FI asked for it back and she finally gave it back. I swear she had to have washed the thing in her perfume. Even after four or five washes I still can't get the smell out. She likes to send "just wanted to let you know how special you are to me" e-mail crap that gets forwarded around. And she always includes her first husband, who she has her oldest son with, my FI (her second husband), several other male friends and her FI. And if you are keeping up that makes three kids from three different fathers from three different marriages. NUTCASE...and like many have said before it doesn't get any better. My only advice is to be careful of how you FI approaches the topic of only calling when it is in regards to his son. I know the crazy ex that we have to deal with literally will not allow FI to see or speak to his son if he crosses her wrong in any way and she basically disappears for several months to the point that we have to have welfare checks by the police done on his son to make sure he is ok. This has been an ongoing battle that we have brought up in court but they always manage to take her side b/c she comes up with some cock-a-meme excuse of why she kept his son away. Mostly because "I offered for him to talk to his daddy but he didn't want to so I didn't force him to call and I don't make my son do anything he doesn't want to do" Just think when the child turns 18 no more. You don't have to give her your new numbers or addresses or emails. AHHHHH only 13 more grueling and long years for me!

Does the situation with your fiance's ex ever put a strain on your relationship?

[Mel]

Unfortunately. There are many times when I think he should deal with her in one way and he doesn't think it is the right way. I am the type that I want to kick her in her a** all the time when she is being stupid and he wants to too, but he thinks it out rationally, like that we can't do that b/c we will never see him again if we upset her or it will look bad when we go back to court. I don't get jealous over her, but I really hate how she treats their son, other people, and she has no morals at all. She would probably give her kids up just to make sure she had a sex life, oh wait....she abandoned her two boy with her parents to do that! I have to tell you that she is manic depressive, bipolar, (diagnosed for both) and a pathological liar, so you could imagine how hard she is to deal with. Mike and I just have to bite our tongues a lot when this situation arise and we have both had to learn how to approach and give advice without going off the deep end on each other. It is very tough and honestly if I wasn't so in love with him I'd leave (I encouraged him to track down his son and fight her in court and now look where it has gotten me!) We just pray every day that she gets hit by a bus, haha, but seriously we just keep saying that his son will understand one day when he gets older and will realize who his dad really is and how his mom has treated him and everyone else. He will be closer to us then and if it means going through hell for a few years, but we get to have a healthy relationship with him for the rest of his life once he realizes everything...I think it is worth it.

[tvt]

bummer, i missed the picture. But I agree with the sending the pic to her husband and saying: guess she meant to send this to you. or: guess she forgets who she's married to now.

 

what a whack job.

[Infinity22]

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Originally Posted by Mel Unfortunately. There are many times when I think he should deal with her in one way and he doesn't think it is the right way. I am the type that I want to kick her in her a** all the time when she is being stupid and he wants to too, but he thinks it out rationally, like that we can't do that b/c we will never see him again if we upset her or it will look bad when we go back to court. I don't get jealous over her, but I really hate how she treats their son, other people, and she has no morals at all. She would probably give her kids up just to make sure she had a sex life, oh wait....she abandoned her two boy with her parents to do that! I have to tell you that she is manic depressive, bipolar, (diagnosed for both) and a pathological liar, so you could imagine how hard she is to deal with. Mike and I just have to bite our tongues a lot when this situation arise and we have both had to learn how to approach and give advice without going off the deep end on each other. It is very tough and honestly if I wasn't so in love with him I'd leave (I encouraged him to track down his son and fight her in court and now look where it has gotten me!) We just pray every day that she gets hit by a bus, haha, but seriously we just keep saying that his son will understand one day when he gets older and will realize who his dad really is and how his mom has treated him and everyone else. He will be closer to us then and if it means going through hell for a few years, but we get to have a healthy relationship with him for the rest of his life once he realizes everything...I think it is worth it.

I totally feel for you. I've had my experiences with some crazy ex's and it seems like one of mine is trying to screw with us now. It's funny what us parents will do for our kids, isn't it?

[LizR1]

i say your FI has to set her straight! she is doing it to GET TO YOU but keep your cool--she is a loser--you have the last laugh-he is marrying you without being forced (bc of a child)...that's why its bothering her soo much!!

[AlmostMrsForbes]

hmmm ... i'd mail it to her new husband, asking him to please keep his wife dressed.

[PenMarie]

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Originally Posted by AlmostMrsForbes hmmm ... i'd mail it to her new husband, asking him to please keep his wife dressed.

omg, that's TOO FUNNY!!..hahaha