Is anyone else frustrated with finding invites?

Golden · March 7, 2008

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Originally Posted by SoontobeMrsE

I am SO FREAKIN FRUSTRATED!

Eveything I like, my FI doesn't. I am at the point where I am over it. I see myself turning into a bridezilla over this. I designed the initial STD letter, the STD Postcard and now I have started looking for actual invites, and nothing I pick out is to his liking.

He just says, "Oh bring me some more, get more samples". Why? So he can just shoot me down again?

Maybe I need to take a wedding break. I don't know. I am so overwhelmed with it all right now. I know we have plenty of time, but I am a neurotic planner and this is so stressful. The only help or opinions I get is from him and his mom. His mom is usually agreeable, but he keeps shooting all of my ideas down.

My BM (my sister) is MIA, my MOH lives 2 hours away and doesn't have a computer to check her e-mail. I don't have a mom - my dad's wife could give a rat's ass. My dad...he's another story altogether. So the only people I have are you guys to listen to me rant!

I think I am going to leave the invitation thing alone for a while so I can take a breather.

I think tonight I'm skipping the PTO meeting and I am heading straight to Target to peruse their dollar aisles - and on the way home I'm stopping at Noodles & Co. to buy some macaroni and cheese. Mooooooo.

Thanks for letting me vent.
~Celina

I understand, I just pick a invite , I really did not care if my FI like it or not. If you like it then for it. Men just don't have a clue about wedding stuff (lol)

DanielleNDerek · March 7, 2008

i thought my fi would be like yours, shooting down all my ideas but luckily his parents planted in his brains that "it's Danielle wedding. Make sure you let her do what she wants, she's the bride so its really her wedding." Gotta love them for that one.

If i were you i would stop looking for awhile, don't stress yourself out. Tell fi to start looking and see if he picks out anything to your liking. I'm sure once he realizes how much work it is to look through all these choices he'll give up and maybe let you have your way.