Confessions

[Aruba Bride]

Completely agree with your second confession!! 

 

Originally Posted by Branya2012 

And for my own confession:

 

I do not want my future brother-in-law and his wife and kids to come to our wedding. This is no surprise to my fiancee because we both think his brother is a terrible person, but it's his brother so he wants him there. (The brother has put up a big fuss about money and now about never taking his kids to Mexico so I don't think they're going to make it anyways, but I still have my fingers crossed!)

 

And another confession, for good measure...I really want to tell all of the people who have been negative and selfish about our DW to go screw themselves, right to their faces!! It's our dream wedding and there's nothing anyone can do to change our minds!! (Especially now that the deposit has been paid.)

 

[kymish]

My FI mother and sister irritate the crap out of me everything from their voices to the shit they do

I Hate my mother ( but can never say that to anybody)

I find being a mom really hard work

 

 

[WeddingMay]

I hope my sister will come to my wedding but I hope she will leave her FI (both at home and permanently-YIKES!)

[atalanta]

@Branya2012

 

Thank you so much. I hadn't figured out anything as yet. I just hadn't talked to her in a long while. Then she called me and asked if we were married already, which makes me think that I hadn't asked her. Why would I have gotten married and not let one of my bridesmaids know, right?

 

 

Originally Posted by Branya2012 

You could ask her what she is going to wear to the wedding. If she says something about a bridesmaid dress, then just say something about how you know that, silly, but ask her what she thinks about your colour and whether she is okay with wearing the same style as the other bridesmaids or does she think it'll look nice for each girl to pick their own style (of course, that will only work if you are laid back about the bridesmaid dresses...I personally think it's nice when a bridal party has the same colour/fabric dresses, all done in different styles...but even if you aren't easy going about it, you are the bride and always reserve the right to change your mind!). If she says she hasn't picked out an outfit yet, then you know you never asked her! There's only a slim chance she'll think you forgot...but that is the case, so would it be that bad??

 

Hopefully that helps, or you've figured it out on your own!! You could also get your fiancee to ask her...I'm assuming he's a dude, so he wouldn't necessarily remember if she was a bridesmaid or not.
 

 

 

[atalanta]

I, too, love your second confession. What's up with people that they think that they have the right to tell you how to get married?
 

Originally Posted by Branya2012 

And for my own confession:

 

I do not want my future brother-in-law and his wife and kids to come to our wedding. This is no surprise to my fiancee because we both think his brother is a terrible person, but it's his brother so he wants him there. (The brother has put up a big fuss about money and now about never taking his kids to Mexico so I don't think they're going to make it anyways, but I still have my fingers crossed!)

 

And another confession, for good measure...I really want to tell all of the people who have been negative and selfish about our DW to go screw themselves, right to their faces!! It's our dream wedding and there's nothing anyone can do to change our minds!! (Especially now that the deposit has been paid.)

 

[lucy<3woody]

I am happy that my dad is not coming.

[favorsmr]

My confession: Even thought I have done internet dating, very few people know that my FI and I met online.

[kat2012]

We met online too!
 

Originally Posted by favorsmr 

My confession: Even thought I have done internet dating, very few people know that my FI and I met online.

 

[atalanta]

We did, too! Craigslist to be exact!
 

Originally Posted by kat2012 

We met online too!
 

 

 

Originally Posted by favorsmr 

My confession: Even thought I have done internet dating, very few people know that my FI and I met online.

 

[favorsmr]

It was MySpace for us!

 

Originally Posted by atalanta 

We did, too! Craigslist to be exact!