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confession: i want cougs and t to adopt meeeeeeeeee

confession 2: DH and I are passing a bottle, yes a bottle of wine back and forth...haha
i heart you so much!! hahaha

confession: i would much rather adopt linds and feed her a bottle of wine than adopt a baby and feed it a bottle of formula.
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I confess that I do want kids.. and we have actually been talking about having them soon enough (maybe the next year or 2) but I know I am not ready. I think about how I wont be able to take a long shower, or go wherever I want.. when I want, or how things will change with K and I after the focus changes to the baby.... EKKKK that sounds selfish
You're allowed that. That's the good thing about being newlyweds, you get to focus on each other and the newness of being a wife before you have to change the focus to being a mother. I know women who were married years and years until they were ready to have children. I'm sure if you give yourself time, you can focus on children when you are ready and the pros outweigh the cons in your head. For me, I want kids but I am kind of bummed to think about what it would do to my body. I kinda like my waist lol.
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For those of you trying to figure out when they should decide to have kids . . .when the time is right but don't set a date/time . . . there are people out there who have been trying for years with no luck and sometimes it just doesn't seem fair. Trust me I know from personal experience and I guess well there is my confession!

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i confess that i do want kids, but not at all costs like FI...there is a chance that he might not be able to have kids so we are going to a specialist after the wedding. we got into a "discussion" last night because he says he would try IVF and all that, which is fine with me BUT we got on the topic of adoption and this is something i'm just not willing to do.
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We had basically the same situation, but I thought it might be hard for me to have kids. He was thinking we should start dealing with our difficulties conceiving after like 2 months of trying, which at our age, or any age, is not even a long time to be ttc. Uhg. Anyway, I forced him to chill because I know the stress wasnt good, and lo and behold, found out we were pregnant this week. But I did not want to go IVF and all that. Just dont get nuts and cross that bridge when you get to it.
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We had basically the same situation, but I thought it might be hard for me to have kids. He was thinking we should start dealing with our difficulties conceiving after like 2 months of trying, which at our age, or any age, is not even a long time to be ttc. Uhg. Anyway, I forced him to chill because I know the stress wasnt good, and lo and behold, found out we were pregnant this week. But I did not want to go IVF and all that. Just dont get nuts and cross that bridge when you get to it.
Congratulations!

This is something DH and I have talked about a lot too. And also why I would like to start trying as soon as he'll let me lol. I have PCOS and possibly endometriosis and while my doc tells me it's not bad I keep having this nagging feeling that the longer we wait the harder it will be for us. And I'm so scared to go the IVF route, I don't know if I can handle the stress and hormones that it brings not to mention I HATE needles.
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