Confessions

[KittenHeart]

LOL Cindy! As long as you're not doing it for real, you're fine

[*kellis*]

I swear I'm with the rest of you, I think I may need this forum more now that I'm married. I need a place to not feel so crazy!

 

Confession #1

I know we've agreed to wait and that our finances are not at a place they should be for us to be starting a family...But I wanted to cry when I got my period last week(the first one since the honeymoon.) Before the wedding it was, I wanna wait until we're married to try, and now that we are my mind knows it's not the right time but my heart reeeeally wants a baby.

 

Confession #2

I also want to curl up into a ball and cry because we STILL don't have our professional wedding pictures. Everything didn't go hunky dory at the wedding and I was all excited to see the pictures people put up on facebook for me so I could see that they were all enjoying themselves, but I really wanted to see the professional pics to know that it was all worth it(especially since this guy was anything but professional, even if he is talented and has a good portfolio).

And as of right now, it's been over a month since the wedding and I haven't heard from our photographer in 2 WEEKS! No preview or teasers or even an update e-mail. He said he had to cancel our appointment to pick up the pictures 2 weeks ago because he needed one more day and hasn't answered any of our calls or e-mails since. My mom sent him an e-mail today and gave him until Monday to contact us. Then she's going to do a paypal dispute on the deposit. That should get his attention. But it's not about the money, those are our wedding pictures!!!

I'm also pissed off about it because DH's Gram turned 74 yesterday and all she asked us for as a birthday present was a small album of wedding pictures she could keep in her purse to show off to people. We both love this woman so much and it made me so mad that 5 weeks after our wedding we had nothing to give her but some blurry facebook pictures and a promise of an album soon.

 

Phew...thanks for the vent. Sorry if I sound like a B....:/

[BachataBride]

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Originally Posted by *kellis* I swear I'm with the rest of you, I think I may need this forum more now that I'm married. I need a place to not feel so crazy! Confession #1 I know we've agreed to wait and that our finances are not at a place they should be for us to be starting a family...But I wanted to cry when I got my period last week(the first one since the honeymoon.) Before the wedding it was, I wanna wait until we're married to try, and now that we are my mind knows it's not the right time but my heart reeeeally wants a baby.

Ditto this!!! I know it's not the right time...but I want to be a mommy so bad!

As for your pictures - keep on him. Explain the circumstances about grandma. And document everything that happens between the 2 of you (emailed at this date & time, called at this date & time) in case anything happens & you have to take extreme action.


Cindx - I your confession. I think if I were doing the shred right now (which I have been procrastinating!) I would totally be punching my hubby's face...it's been a rough week for us too!

[hat0112]

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Originally Posted by Shoesiesluvr my confession:: while doing 30 day shred, theres a part where you have to do punches and when doing so I totally imagine my FI's face that im punching...is that really mean? lol i cant help it, this week has been a super hellish week with him where hes been super stressed with work and seems to be taking it out on me...so instead of fighting I imagine punching his lights out haha

LOL... I usually picture someone I am mad at and it just happens to be the FI sometimes. It usually makes me feel better.

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Originally Posted by *kellis* I swear I'm with the rest of you, I think I may need this forum more now that I'm married. I need a place to not feel so crazy! Confession #1 I know we've agreed to wait and that our finances are not at a place they should be for us to be starting a family...But I wanted to cry when I got my period last week(the first one since the honeymoon.) Before the wedding it was, I wanna wait until we're married to try, and now that we are my mind knows it's not the right time but my heart reeeeally wants a baby. Confession #2 I also want to curl up into a ball and cry because we STILL don't have our professional wedding pictures. Everything didn't go hunky dory at the wedding and I was all excited to see the pictures people put up on facebook for me so I could see that they were all enjoying themselves, but I really wanted to see the professional pics to know that it was all worth it(especially since this guy was anything but professional, even if he is talented and has a good portfolio). And as of right now, it's been over a month since the wedding and I haven't heard from our photographer in 2 WEEKS! No preview or teasers or even an update e-mail. He said he had to cancel our appointment to pick up the pictures 2 weeks ago because he needed one more day and hasn't answered any of our calls or e-mails since. My mom sent him an e-mail today and gave him until Monday to contact us. Then she's going to do a paypal dispute on the deposit. That should get his attention. But it's not about the money, those are our wedding pictures!!! I'm also pissed off about it because DH's Gram turned 74 yesterday and all she asked us for as a birthday present was a small album of wedding pictures she could keep in her purse to show off to people. We both love this woman so much and it made me so mad that 5 weeks after our wedding we had nothing to give her but some blurry facebook pictures and a promise of an album soon. Phew...thanks for the vent. Sorry if I sound like a B....:/

I know that once we are married I am going to want a baby ASAP but we will need to get things in order first and I won’t be happy about it. It is better to make sure you are ready first and it will be forth it when you finally start to have kids.

I am so sorry about your pictures! Hopefully the photographer will come through and you will get some great professional pictures.

[*Linds*]

Confession: we are starting back up or gym routine after totally slacking since the wedding...part of me would rather just be fat and happy lol

[**Kat**]

LOL I am with you Linds! I havent stepped FOOT in the gym since we got back.. and that was over 6 weeks ago!!! And I have no reason. K doesnt get home until almost 3 hours after me. plenty of time to do that and get dinner and stuff ready.. but I have been using that time for me... but I really should be doing that at the gym

[skadow]

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Originally Posted by *Linds* Confession: we are starting back up or gym routine after totally slacking since the wedding...part of me would rather just be fat and happy lol

I totally know what you mean!

I'm not even married yet, but being happy is starting to seem more importent then being hungry all the time and working out =) ...i just dont wanna think about the bikini tho

[jennster_04]

I agree, i was freaking about wearing a bikni but now i just dont care, i cant starve myself i like to eat when im hungry!

[KittenHeart]

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Originally Posted by *Linds* Confession: we are starting back up or gym routine after totally slacking since the wedding...part of me would rather just be fat and happy lol

Confession: I am fat and happy... ok fat and sad about it but you know, same thing! hahaha!

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Originally Posted by *kellis* I swear I'm with the rest of you, I think I may need this forum more now that I'm married. I need a place to not feel so crazy! Confession #1 I know we've agreed to wait and that our finances are not at a place they should be for us to be starting a family...But I wanted to cry when I got my period last week(the first one since the honeymoon.) Before the wedding it was, I wanna wait until we're married to try, and now that we are my mind knows it's not the right time but my heart reeeeally wants a baby. Confession #2 I also want to curl up into a ball and cry because we STILL don't have our professional wedding pictures. Everything didn't go hunky dory at the wedding and I was all excited to see the pictures people put up on facebook for me so I could see that they were all enjoying themselves, but I really wanted to see the professional pics to know that it was all worth it(especially since this guy was anything but professional, even if he is talented and has a good portfolio). And as of right now, it's been over a month since the wedding and I haven't heard from our photographer in 2 WEEKS! No preview or teasers or even an update e-mail. He said he had to cancel our appointment to pick up the pictures 2 weeks ago because he needed one more day and hasn't answered any of our calls or e-mails since. My mom sent him an e-mail today and gave him until Monday to contact us. Then she's going to do a paypal dispute on the deposit. That should get his attention. But it's not about the money, those are our wedding pictures!!! I'm also pissed off about it because DH's Gram turned 74 yesterday and all she asked us for as a birthday present was a small album of wedding pictures she could keep in her purse to show off to people. We both love this woman so much and it made me so mad that 5 weeks after our wedding we had nothing to give her but some blurry facebook pictures and a promise of an album soon. Phew...thanks for the vent. Sorry if I sound like a B....:/

Awww, your time for a baby will come, don't you worry!! You're being smart to get more financially stable first, I'm doing the same thing!

A LOT of photographers take around 6 weeks to get you photos so just know that it's not totally abnormal. He shouldn't be ignoring your emails though, that's just rude and unprofessional!

[BachataBride]

Neither one of you are fat!!!