Confessions

[**Kat**]

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Originally Posted by BachataBride I confess that my DH is being a douche!!! What gives him the right to tell me how to do certain things that affect him around the house (ie, wind the hose a certain way so he can mow without interference) but when I ask him to do something that will help me around the house (ie, put his bathroom stuff back in the drawer where he gets them so they are not in the way when I clean the bathroom) it's called nagging, or being anal! He pisses me off sometimes!!! And this is twice now in the last week...

Manders I totally agree!!!!UGH!
K will NOT do things BECAUSE I ask him to... like.. when it is snowing outside and he doesnt have a coat I will say somethnig like "Dont you want to grab a coat" and he will say no JUST because I said something!! Sometimes I SWEAR I am going to say the opposite of what I want him to do and see if THAt works!

[hat0112]

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Originally Posted by BachataBride I confess that my DH is being a douche!!! What gives him the right to tell me how to do certain things that affect him around the house (ie, wind the hose a certain way so he can mow without interference) but when I ask him to do something that will help me around the house (ie, put his bathroom stuff back in the drawer where he gets them so they are not in the way when I clean the bathroom) it's called nagging, or being anal! He pisses me off sometimes!!! And this is twice now in the last week...

Uh, I HATE the word nag! Men can be so difficult sometimes!!


Confession: In February I scheduled my BD session and I was about 14lbs away from my goal weight so I booked my session for July 11 (this Sunday) to give me time to get my weight down. So what do I do? Gain another 11lbs. We had a lot going on in the past 4 months, but I have no one to blame but myself. A part of me just wants to cancel the session and not do it at all. And also, I don’t fit into my wedding dress. It fit in January, but I can’t zipper it up anymore and I don’t have enough time to lose the 21lbs I need to to get my dress altered in time for the wedding. And I am a Weight Watchers leader!!!!! I help and motivate my members every week and I’m not even at my own goal! I feel like such a hypocrite and every time I think about my dress not fitting and how fat I will look in my BD pictures it gets me so upset.

[Cindy*]

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Originally Posted by hat0112 Confession: In February I scheduled my BD session and I was about 14lbs away from my goal weight so I booked my session for July 11 (this Sunday) to give me time to get my weight down. So what do I do? Gain another 11lbs. We had a lot going on in the past 4 months, but I have no one to blame but myself. A part of me just wants to cancel the session and not do it at all. And also, I don’t fit into my wedding dress. It fit in January, but I can’t zipper it up anymore and I don’t have enough time to lose the 21lbs I need to to get my dress altered in time for the wedding. And I am a Weight Watchers leader!!!!! I help and motivate my members every week and I’m not even at my own goal! I feel like such a hypocrite and every time I think about my dress not fitting and how fat I will look in my BD pictures it gets me so upset.

Don't get discouraged. You still have plenty of time to lose weight if you want to, you just have to commit to it. As a WW leader, you already have all the tools. I'm sure you can do it and fit into your dress no problem. I would also say go ahead with the BD photos, I'm sure they will be beautiful and seeing how good you look may give you the motivation you were looking for. Good luck.

Confession: I have already bought my wedding dress and TTD but all I want to do is keep dress shopping. I need to stop but it is so much fun.

[**Kat**]

Well said Cindy! I think that is GREAT advice!

 

And I totally know how you feel about dress shopping! I am already married and I still want to go try on more dresses! LOL

[dstinationdrmr]

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Originally Posted by miss_delerium Thanks for the advice and comments. I am also saddened by the fact that she is getting married this November and didn't ask me to be in her wedding party She's having a DW as well, and invited me to come, but not to participate, which sucks. I always imagined us being in each other's weddings when we were growing up. But I suppose I should extend the olive branch, so to speak and make the first move towards reconciliation

That's even more reason for you to do this sooner rather than later. I'm getting married in Nov and can't say I'd add a new person to the bridal party but maybe you can have another intergral part in her ceremony, or just make a toast for that matter. I'm not saying that you should go into it expecting these things but you never know where her heart/head is at until you talk it out. You both may be having the same exact feelings about the situation.

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Originally Posted by tsgnatko MY FSIL won't come to our wedding - ugh

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Originally Posted by carolina24 ditto here....she and FI don't speak much, but i extended the olive branch and asked her daughter to be one of my flower girls. FSIL agreed and niece got super excited. i bought her a flower girl book and she started "practicing" now FSIL isn't coming and didn't even have the b*lls to tell me personally, that i'm down a flower girl. confession: i'm kinda glad she's not coming, oops!

My FSIL wasn't coming to ours initially for reasons beyond her control but she never mentioned it. She agreed to be a bridesmaid, do my hair and all and had no plans of coming. It all worked out later and she's coming now, but that was wayyy too frustrating. I feel your pain. One less person you have to pay for/worry about tho!

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Originally Posted by BachataBride I confess that my DH is being a douche!!! What gives him the right to tell me how to do certain things that affect him around the house (ie, wind the hose a certain way so he can mow without interference) but when I ask him to do something that will help me around the house (ie, put his bathroom stuff back in the drawer where he gets them so they are not in the way when I clean the bathroom) it's called nagging, or being anal! He pisses me off sometimes!!! And this is twice now in the last week...

OMG! You are not alone!!

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Originally Posted by KittenHeart CONFESSION - I freaking HATE earthquakes! We JUST had one and I nearly had a heart attack, stupid California

I've never been in one but I can imagine how terrifying they are. Scary!!

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Originally Posted by KittenHeart Manders sorry I got caught up in the earthquake when I was about to agree with you. I agree... the very word nag or nagging sends me into rage! Can't stand it... even worse, "you're not my mother!" Uh yeah, no kidding, don't act like a child that needs one!

Lol! Amy, I'm gonna use that one!

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Originally Posted by jennster_04 Im really really up set my gff isnt coming to our wedding, She can afford to go to all her boyfriends friends weddings this summer but not mine, Might i mentin shes known her bf for a yr and know me for 10 yrs. She says she cant afford to come , yet shes been 2 3 weddings so far and even when i offered to pay she said she cant go on a vacation without her boyfriend, who also cant afford to come. Well this isnt a vacation is you bff wedding and i am really PISSED!

This is so sad and I feel your pain. When planning a wedding especially a DW people's true colors are exposed and some of the people we thought would go to the ends of the earth for us act like we shouldn't expect such. I hate that you're going thru this but I'm gonna go out on a limb and say that a "true" friend would sacrifice a trip with her bf to be there for you on one of the most important days of your life.

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Originally Posted by hat0112 Confession: In February I scheduled my BD session and I was about 14lbs away from my goal weight so I booked my session for July 11 (this Sunday) to give me time to get my weight down. So what do I do? Gain another 11lbs. We had a lot going on in the past 4 months, but I have no one to blame but myself. A part of me just wants to cancel the session and not do it at all. And also, I don’t fit into my wedding dress. It fit in January, but I can’t zipper it up anymore and I don’t have enough time to lose the 21lbs I need to to get my dress altered in time for the wedding. And I am a Weight Watchers leader!!!!! I help and motivate my members every week and I’m not even at my own goal! I feel like such a hypocrite and every time I think about my dress not fitting and how fat I will look in my BD pictures it gets me so upset.

I feel your pain on this! I always thought that my wedding would be all the motivation I need to lose weight. It seems like the stress of planning alone adds on pounds. Like someone said tho, you already have the tools you need to lose the weight and you have time. Think about having to go buy another wedding dress and the fact that it would probably be ultra expensive and possibly not ready when you need it. Maybe that can serve as your motivation. As far as the BD shoot....do it! It's something that a few BDW ladies convinced me to do and by no means am I at my goal weight, but FI loves you the way you are and you have to embrace that. Hope it all works out for you!

[KittenHeart]

My SIL didn't come to our wedding either and ignored my invite to come to our Vegas legal wedding should could have DRIVEN to in a few hours. I mean didn't even respond to my email.

 

She also got mad at me when I told her that I was going to DIY the hair flowers for the girls in my wedding instead of hiring her to make them acusing me of using another friend to make them instead. I made all 6 of them for $50 total where she was going to charge me that PER hair flower... riiiiippp offf. It's been over a year and she hasn't talked to me since. Petty! I even hand made something really special for my now niece she had last year and she goes "how much did THAT cost you?" I was like, I told you I MADE it.

 

Sad, I was excited to finally have a "sister" no such luck! So just know you ladies are not alone.

[**Kat**]

WHOA Amy! That sucks! What a stupid thing for her to fight about!

[Cindy*]

Amy, that is ridiculous, so sorry to hear that.

[miss_delerium]

Confession: I've spent more time on here at work than actually "working" since I joined. Lol. Oopsie...

[**Kat**]

Join the club! lol