Confessions

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Thanks for the advice and comments. I am also saddened by the fact that she is getting married this November and didn't ask me to be in her wedding party She's having a DW as well, and invited me to come, but not to participate, which sucks. I always imagined us being in each other's weddings when we were growing up. But I suppose I should extend the olive branch, so to speak and make the first move towards reconciliation

do it... you can do it!!! just try to stay calm when you speak and dont bring up old matters. just move forward. be a part of eachothers MILESTONES!
Best Wishes to the both of you!

[carolina24]

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Originally Posted by tsgnatko MY FSIL won't come to our wedding - ugh

ditto here....she and FI don't speak much, but i extended the olive branch and asked her daughter to be one of my flower girls. FSIL agreed and niece got super excited. i bought her a flower girl book and she started "practicing" now FSIL isn't coming and didn't even have the b*lls to tell me personally, that i'm down a flower girl.

confession: i'm kinda glad she's not coming, oops!

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Originally Posted by carolina24 ditto here....she and FI don't speak much, but i extended the olive branch and asked her daughter to be one of my flower girls. FSIL agreed and niece got super excited. i bought her a flower girl book and she started "practicing" now FSIL isn't coming and didn't even have the b*lls to tell me personally, that i'm down a flower girl. confession: i'm kinda glad she's not coming, oops!

the FSIL isnt coming to ours either. but at least you have one less person to worry about. even though you are down a flower girl. sorry, i bet she feels down too

[wendyjd]

I spent the weekend in a crappy hotel room with a red heart shaped jacuzzi tub (with black fake marble surround). Here's the kicker, I wouldn't go near it, not even to stand in it (wearing shoes) for pics.

 

we went out of town for a last minute holiday weekend and FI booked a regular room, we were "upgraded" to the suite, he was very glad that the staff told me we were upgraded so I didn't think he booked the room.

[BachataBride]

I confess that my DH is being a douche!!! What gives him the right to tell me how to do certain things that affect him around the house (ie, wind the hose a certain way so he can mow without interference) but when I ask him to do something that will help me around the house (ie, put his bathroom stuff back in the drawer where he gets them so they are not in the way when I clean the bathroom) it's called nagging, or being anal! He pisses me off sometimes!!! And this is twice now in the last week...

[KittenHeart]

CONFESSION - I freaking HATE earthquakes! We JUST had one and I nearly had a heart attack, stupid California

[Shoesiesluvr]

Confession...i truly agree with what both manders and amy just said...if you tell your FI or husband to do something, theyre initial reaction is to say stop nagging...yet they can tell us what to do all they want...&& Amy I agree, so far CA has been all bad weather and stupid earthquakes....lame!!

[KittenHeart]

Manders sorry I got caught up in the earthquake when I was about to agree with you.

 

I agree... the very word nag or nagging sends me into rage! Can't stand it... even worse, "you're not my mother!" Uh yeah, no kidding, don't act like a child that needs one!

[jennster_04]

Im really really up set my gff isnt coming to our wedding, She can afford to go to all her boyfriends friends weddings this summer but not mine, Might i mentin shes known her bf for a yr and know me for 10 yrs. She says she cant afford to come , yet shes been 2 3 weddings so far and even when i offered to pay she said she cant go on a vacation without her boyfriend, who also cant afford to come. Well this isnt a vacation is you bff wedding and i am really PISSED!

[miss_delerium]

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Originally Posted by jennster_04 Im really really up set my gff isnt coming to our wedding, She can afford to go to all her boyfriends friends weddings this summer but not mine, Might i mentin shes known her bf for a yr and know me for 10 yrs. She says she cant afford to come , yet shes been 2 3 weddings so far and even when i offered to pay she said she cant go on a vacation without her boyfriend, who also cant afford to come. Well this isnt a vacation is you bff wedding and i am really PISSED!

That really sucks. I would be sooooo mad too! I can't believe that even after you offered to pay, she still said no because her bf can't come!! That's some BS right there!