My sis/BM is skipping our meeting...I am so hurt

TATrisha · February 8, 2008

I know this really sucks, but like the other ladies have said... it's really only important to you.

Her church is equal to your wedding. She probably wonders why all you want to do or talk about is your wedding. Just like all she's interested in spending her time doing is in regards to the church. We don't always understand everyone's priorities, but we all have them. Hers = church, yours = wedding.

But it sounds like you are starting to feel better about it and are getting excited that she's at least going to DB with you. That's a good thing. You will have a wonderful time!

jajajaja · February 8, 2008

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Originally Posted by foxytv

Can you meet before the David's appointment?

I know how frustrating it is when people don't take your wedding plans as seriosuly as you do -- but I've learned from others on this forum, and the hard way on my own, that NOONE will think your wedding is anywhere NEAR as important as you do. This is something we do have to keep in perspective, although TRUST ME I know it can really be tough sometimes. I've been let down ssoo many times during my DW planning process that it's really stung.

Exactly. And I'm sure most of the people that don't understand how important this is to us have never been married and suffered from the "bridal craze." Personally, I'm close with my sister so I would call her and tell her that I'm really disappointed she couldn't make it. Maybe ask for a day that works better for it if it's really important she do the "girls day."