@@LoLoJabs we just want to know we can use the venues we love, I'm fine with waiting for a while to get fine details down I just want to be sure we won't get put in like.... the ballroom when we want to have Tucanes, it feels kinda crazy to put down a save the date deposit but not be able to confirm the venues! ACK
ok, as long as other people have had the same experience, I feel some peace lol