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No she isn't pregnant. She is actually single atm (I realize this doesn't mean she isn't pregnant LOL) and has been single for almost a year so that's not it. @@TNT2015 She's also the type of person who couldn't keep that secret for very long so I would know by now haha! I'm starting to wonder if it is jealousy a bit on her part like was said before. I really hope it's not since I'm not the type to rub things in people's faces, so I'll feel badly if she feels like I am [emoji17] Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

Well at the end of the day it is her fault that she didn't get involved. I have done everything within my power to include her; and nothing seems to be good enough. So when I do my thank you speeches I hope she notices how her name is left out and realizes why it was. It's too late for her not to be a bridesmaid since she already has her dress and has booked for her hair in Jamaica or believe me she wouldn't be standing up there with me. I'm thinking she likes the drama and attention, so I'm just not going to give it to her. I'm not interested in playing these game LOL! I am a very honest and straightforward person (sometimes gets me into trouble) so for me her playing these games is a huge turn off! I hope the two of us can stay friends after this but we will have to wait and find out I guess! @@GingerBride Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

I really feel like cersie off game of thrones in it [emoji38] Thank you @@Wafflesmom [emoji5]️ I feel really beautiful in it !! Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

It's not that believe me that was my first thought too! I've told everyone that no gifts are needed at all for anything! I'm just glad they are willing to spend the money to be there for my wedding. [emoji1] and I wouldn't be upset like this if she actually came to just one event! (Other than the actual wedding) I've offered to drive and pick her up but that doesn't work for her either. It's just so confusing for me because why would you agree to be a bridesmaid but not actually want to be involved with anything?! My FI and I aren't doing a stag and doe since people are already spending money to come to our wedding. And our events have been months apart; so it's not like it's been one after the other either. Just would be nice if she could make ONE event! She doesn't even think she can get her nails done with all of us the day before we leave; and she will be driving right by where we are getting them done to get to Toronto!! Just sad more than anything else. @@GingerBride Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

Found the outfit my uncle is going to be wearing at the wedding to walk me down the aisle! Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

Was taught that one the first time I went to Jamaica [emoji6] haha @ Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

Our WC received our paperwork for the wedding, and says everything is good to go! I was a little stressed since I am adopted and therefore my new birth certificate doesn't have a father listed; since I changed my name and the courts changed all my history to being with my mom now(who is a single parent). Just glad all seems to be well! Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

Very sound advice! Thank you @ [emoji4] it's just hard to let it go in the heat of the moment and each time it happens it still hurts but, I've decided to just let it go and that; "everything is going to be irie" [emoji12][emoji267] Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

Thank you @@maybeoneday [emoji4] The dress feels amazing on. Very easy to sit down in and actually very light since it fits like a glove on the top half! I absolutely love it [emoji7] Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

I'd suggest waterproof anyways since it'll be hot! LOL Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

Had to post updated pics of my dress [emoji7] These are from today: Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

Very true LOL! @@MissJen3 Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

I know right!? I've asked her a few times and she always just says distance. Well the one time she had to work which is a legit reason to not be able to attend! But every other time she just says it's too far for her; we even have a spare room I've told her she's free to use anytime! She always acts and talks super excited but when the event comes up she just can't come. Iva almost stopped asking her to come since I know the answer will always be no. I'm not going to let it ruin my wedding but it's nice to be able to vent once in awhile to people who understand the wedding struggles!! [emoji38] Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

The girls at the shop keep exploding my ego!![emoji87] they keep telling me how the dress looks better on me than their model!! Makes me feel so bubbly [emoji5]️ Thank you so much @@TinkerSofi I really feel like a royal maiden from the medieval era [emoji73] kinda like cersie on game of thrones LOL! Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

Believe me I realize not everyone cares about every event but she hasn't made an effort to come to even a single one @@vancouverpetunia the first event was over a year ago with the next one not being until a month or so ago and the next event is my bachelorette on April 11th which she can't come to either. My other bridal shower is the next weekend and then we only have the next weekend and then the next we leave!! So it's not like I've had event after event after event! There have been months in between and tons of advanced notice as well as a few reminders closer to the date of the event and she acts like she is going to come and all excited but bails last minute. I'd prefer if she was just upfront with me and stated she didn't want to come so I don't get my hopes up! It's just common courtesy. I will be enjoying my 2 weeks to the upmost fullest! If people are going to act shady I will just do me! [emoji4] Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

I thought maybe money was the issue so I had offered to pick her up even! I know it's not money since she is also going to Australia and Europe this coming summer and fall; which she booked after paying for my wedding. I just want her to come and be a part of it! And she's met a couple people and really liked them and got along great! So I don't think she's nervous since she's the very outgoing type of person! She is very open with me and has never insinuated anything about funds or not liking anyone. Like I said I've even offered to pick her up! The only thing she ever has to say is that the drive is too far for her. @@kellymiller Just disappointed to say the least [emoji17] Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

It's just so crazy because she is going to be passing right by Cambridge on her way to Toronto to get to the hotel, which is where I live!! Like she can't come earlier and make a quick stop to get her nails done with all of us? I understand her not being able to make it to certain events because we all have our own lives; but she has literally came to nothing. I barley got her to the dress shop to do a fitting!! My MOH is super amazing! I was in a huge car accident in October so she has been my right hand through everything! @@calgarybride2015 Gotta love those friends you can truly count on. I can honestly say that weddings prove exactly who your real friends are in life! I'm feeling calmer now LOL! Just really hurts when it's a fresh wound. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

I'm sorry to post a rant but I am really upset! Is it just me or is it rude for a bridesmaid who every time something is planned; ie. Bachelorette, bridal shower, pre wedding manicure and shopping dates ext, skips out at the last minute with some lame excuse about how she can't make it based on distance?! Yes she has paid in full to come to my wedding and always says she's excited to be a part of it, but anytime it comes to her actually coming and participating in things she is always busy or can't come because of the distance; which is only 2.5 hours. (Good length of time but she agreed to be a bridesmaid and hasn't come to ANYTHING I've planned!) She couldn't come to the bridal/groom party, party (so everyone could meet and get to know each other a bit before the week long trip), couldn't come to my first bridal shower, can't come to my bachelorette which is only on Saturday night to Sunday in Niagara, and also can't come to my next bridal shower! I am also planning to get manicures and pedicures with the girls and my mom the day before we leave, but now she doesn't think she can come since she's going to stay at the hotel in Toronto for the flight the next day. It's driving me nuts! She's excluding herself from everything and it's making it really hard for me to stay as excited about having her there for the week if she's going to be standoffish with everyone. Am I just over thinking it?? Maybe I'm just taking it to heart to much, but it is hurting my feelings; it's like my wedding doesn't mean anything at all to her and she's one of my bridesmaids! I've tried to help make it easier for her to make it to things but she always has another excuse as to why she can't go. I'm just so fed up. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

Thank you so much!! I feel so beautiful in it [emoji5]️ @ I really can't wait for the big day so my FI can see my dress finally!!! LOL Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

Went for my second last fitting [emoji7] One more in a week or so!! Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

Went for my fitting today one more to go!! Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

What my FI and I are doing is two weeks in Jamaica but at 2 different resorts. Going to the Riu Montego Bay for a week with our family & friends for the wedding then after that week, we head to the Grand Rose Hall Suites in Montego Bay for our honeymoon! Second resort is adults only and really amazing! Can't wait! @@Jocelyn73115 Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

Beautiful eyelashes!! [emoji7] Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

Thank you [emoji4] @@Janjin I can't believe I was able to do it in one try! Just glad I was able to finish it since we only have 35 days until we leave!! Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

Anytime! I've been to Jamaica twice before and absolutely love it!! Can't believe we leave in 35 days!! [emoji4] @@Breena Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk