@@CherJK makes sense, we went directly through the hotel, so it was a little more difficult. thankfully all done! It must work differently through a travel agent as we had a room block that was released on November 1st and now we are told that the hotel is sold out for that week. So hopefully you have a room block through your travel agent for the guest who still need to book.
yea we are definitely going to do private then!
that is a good size wedding! we have about 80 total, it's gunna be so much fun!