I love the photo booth idea I am also providing a disposable camera on each of my tables with a list of things for the guests to find and take pictures for
Just be there for her if she opens up and wants to talk about it. some days she might want to and some days she may not. It is a roller coaster of emotions
I am also using word of mouth for us not expecting gifts from guests. Some guests appreciate it and others are still insisting on getting us something.
I have been to both bali and thailand a few times. Thailand would be my vote. Bali seems to be getting more dangerous and dirty. The beaches in Thailand are alot cleaner I feel much safer when I am in Thailand