We are having our wedding at ABH in Sept... we actually visited onsite in Jan 2014 before booking. We didn't do a BDR, but stayed for 5 days so we got to see a few weddings. The one night, there was a wedding with 75 people. If you have a party that large, they close down Blue Restaurant, and the outdoor area is where you'll have dinner and dancing. I almost wish we had enough people to do that because it looked awesome! Our wedding is MUCH smaller (33 people) and so we are using Chil Terrace. If you like the boutique hotel, I would stick with ABH, but if you want a bigger, more spread out resort, go for one of the larger ones.