I don't think its selfish at all. I have a huge family and we invited the aunts and uncles but we decided to get married in Jamaica so the group is small. I think having a destination wedding really keeps it small
We decided to pay for a sit down dinner and have it be a little more private. I know it is silly to pay at an all-inclusive but at least we will have tables together and away from every one else
We still have to finish the welcome bags and print out the welcome letters. I think everything else is good. Still thinking of little things that I hadn't thought of earlier