@@chelseapaige37.....I also have been having a hard time....I actually purchased a gown from David's Bridal that was taffeta and had a bubble hem....the more I thought about that dress, the more I disliked it and I took pictures of myself in it (I actually have it posted on this site). So after many weeks of doubt, I went back to David's this past Sat. I actually found a lace and tulle dress that so fits my vision.
The dress I picked from David's is not online yet (it is new)..it is sweetheart neckline, small bling around waist that is already attached, and form fitting! It is $999. I think it is v3680 if you have a David's near you.
I also didn't take a huge amount of people with me to dress shop....I think one or two is enough. Remember to look online and have some ideas about what you want....because the first time I went I had no idea and the consultant sorta picked the first dress. But the second time around I new how I wanted to look and what I wanted.
I hope this helps! Good luck!