@jsparrow10 Thanks for the information. that's so smart that you did you a site visit.
I think that we have ruled out the Riu Palace Mexico. I saw pictures of real weddings and I noticed that the beach wedding set up has a white fence that looks a little awkward in pictures. Also, the beach set up is not up close to the water so you actually have people in beach beds facing your wedding ceremony and just watching and showing up in pictures.
The search continues...