I absolutely would not. We have maybe 5 people staying at another resort... my guest were provided a travel agent and plenty of information and options with our resort and its sister resort. my FH and I did a lot of leg work and decision making in picking the best resort for all of our guests, so I was slightly offended that they chose another resort anyway. The guests that are staying at our resort are getting nothing extra, and have paid for their own trip, so I agree with other comments in that respect, I didn't pay for anything for those that are staying at our resort, I will not for those that want to stay elsewhere either. We also made it VERY clear from the begining we set up this resort and travel arrangments, and if they went elsewhere the guest pass would range from 70-100$ depending if they came for the whole day or just the ceremony, so that is on them.