Guess that wouldn't be the right thing to do, asking them to drop out! (Wonder how I'd start the conversation off..lol..)
I know it doesn't`t have to balance out but you know us brides wanting everything to be perfect. Unfortunately there is nobody else to ask, a lot of our young friends are not coming or have cxld. Don`t think I want my Aunts as my bridesmaids..lol..
A thought.. maybe I can have 2 groomsmen escort 1 bridesmaid down