Hi Eryka,
Maybe I'll see you there! We are getting married on the 21st of October. I have had pretty good communication with the resort...but there are times it takes several days to get a response. Also, when I do get a response, some of the questions are answered and the others ignored. I have read over and over again about brides being worried and then everything came together for the wedding.
I was told to bring all the money to the resort...no deposit required.
Try not to stress. Easier said than done I know!