I originally really wanted to do Aruba but it was just too pricy per person according to my TA def price around different travel agencies though. when you contact the resort they should only be concerned about the date and time. They should book your date then go from there the resort I'm using doesn't need final numbers until a week or so before we arrive! My wedding is only 3 month away and I still don't have final numbers since some of my guests are slackers and haven't booked yet.