To LoriG - My wedding is this May and I just sent out my invites a week ago. So far I have only a few confirmations, and I do not expect a large group - I am hoping maybe for 15 guests (invited about 40). I was a little upset at first when some of my friends said that they are not able to come but I do understand that this is a destination wedding and not everyone can afford or get time off. The main thing as long as my close family and closest friends are coming, I am fine. The wedding is for you and your fiance, so don't worry about other people. You will be in Mexico and will have unforgettable experience, it's their loss on amazing vacation opportunity. On the plus side, less people equals less stress, less to manage, and more money to save for another honeymoon