Just realize the people who truly want to be there for you on your wedding day will be there. I'm the last of all my friends to get married and the only one to do a destination wedding. I td everyone to start saving before we were even engaged. I still caught grief over the hotel prices, even though, I kept cost as a priority. People forget how much you spend going to their wedding, bachelorette etc.
You will never make everyone happy, so do what is right for you and your future spouse! No regrets!