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@@jenna85 Thank you for the compliment! I wish I knew something about the other people you mentioned to give you more to go on to help decide between the 2. I could easily go on and on about how great Styling Trio is. I didn't have Adrian himself but my 2 stylists were awesome - Irene and Alexander. So sweet as well! I also did a trial with them before the wedding. Do you know if Best Moments uses airbrush makeup? And if you want to see more ST work you can always check out their Facebook page. I found that they have more pics of other brides to see on there compared to their actual website. And don't hesitate with any other questions you may have!

I used styling trio and loved them! I loved the airbrush makeup! And because I just received the vimeo link to our highlight video and super obsessed with it (♡) I am more than happy to share it and you can see how it turned out for me. I would highly recommend them!!

@baezsolano Congrats on the wedding!!! That is awesome that you will actually be there for Future Mrs. Nash's wedding And you're welcome for the details! I am happy to share my experience and hope that all of you up and coming SMB brides will also have the wedding of your dreams!! And I am sure that you will!! Knowing how it all turned out, it was definitely worth the wait and know for certain that we couldn't have chosen a more perfect way to celebrate our love and make it official! As for cocktail hour...we had ours on the beach near the ceremony location. I don't have anything else to compare it to from my own personal experience but I thought it was very nice and don't regret having it there at all! Smart to go with bringing those items if that's what you want! I thought paying almost $500 for 8 lanterns was a little too much as well, especially when I only paid approx. $120ish for 6 and I got to keep them afterwards. Getting there wasn't really as big of a hassle as one might think and well worth it! I actually bought table overlays but then decided to go with dark wooden tables that were pretty without needing to be covered and just had lots of flowers - but all of the flowers were the same as those used for the ceremony, so was only charged a fee (10% of the flower cost I believe) to move them from the ceremony location to the reception. I didn't use the spa for hair & makeup. I went with Styling Trio. But I think Valeria or Cecelia had emailed me a list of Spa services and prices so maybe you can ask for that so that you can at least let people know how much they can expect to pay. My husband's step-mom recently told me that she had gotten her hair done at the spa for the wedding and it costs $75 if that helps give you a rough estimate of what to expect. She had a low "updo" and I thought it turned out nice. Didn't know at the time that she had it done there until recently, but I remember thinking that her hair looked nice & wondered if she actually did it herself lol. Actually one of the final deciding reasons I ended up going with ST was the convenience factor of being able to stay in the room and have mimosas, etc Yes the food was good. And I had asked the same thing because I think we had an item or 2 from the silver menu. You ca substitute any item from a "lower ranked" menu for no additional charge...here's a copy & paste from our email correspondence that may help...answers from Cecelia are in purple... Regarding the menu: 1.) Can we choose items from the Silver menu at no extra charge since our wedding package is priced for the Gold (assuming a higher rank than the silver).- yes you can choose from the silver or gold without extra charge. 2.) Is it possible to offer guests more than one choice for any of the courses, most importantly the main course? If so, how much extra would it cost? (for example, surf and turf or chicken option for main course, or choice of surf and turf, chicken or grouper option)-we suggest to do only one option per course to avoid last minute changes and the fee related to those last minute changes. 3.) Could you please tell me which items are included in the Mexican Tapas Sampler appetizer off of the Gold menu? – Mexican tapas will include taquitos, tamales 4.) Is it possible to choose individual items from the Platinum menu, and only pay an upgraded price for the items chosen, rather than having to upgrade the whole menu to the Platinum price? – yes we can do it at $2 usd per person,. (Platinum menu items that we might be interested in if possible are listed below) Soup - lobster bisque Salad - shrimp Caesar (otherwise just planning on getting the traditional caesar salad off the Gold menu) Desserts - creme brulee with fruit or chocolate brownie served with vanilla ice cream and berry sauce I am not sure if roses are the cheapest but likely so unless you do something with more greenery and less flowers. Roses are considered local flowers vs. peonies, for example, are not and then the price goes up, up. Hope any of this may help! Keep me posted with any future concerns or questions Again - CONGRATS!!! I am so happy to be able to share our wedding highlight video! Carlos Gallardo (Gallardo Films) is simply amazing!!!!!! I will be posting a full review soon (hopefully sooner than later)! Not only is he so talented and creative, he is truly genuine and warm hearted, not to mention a definite pleasure to work with! If I had an event here at home in the states that I wanted to make sure was remembered forever in the most beautiful way possible, I would seriously be willing to pay whatever extra it would cost to have him (& Sarani Estrada - Sarani Photography) fly over here to be able to capture it all!

@@FutureMrsNash We didn't for the most part, although not sure if that is the usual thing to do or not. I know that my husband tipped his favorite waiter at the end of the reception but he was also really drunk by that time lol. I doubt that my parents did either if I had to guess. I think it would have been nice if we would have had more money to spread around since everything turned out so great but we were really broke going into it and still had the honeymoon ahead after leaving SMB. So I guess it's pretty much up to you - such a helpful answer I know @MissFrench Glad to be a part of it! And excited for you! I'm in the process of replying to you so should be sending today or tomorrow. By the way, love the inspiration pics and the theme you are planning!

Glad to help with any advice you may find useful! Your bags sound awesome! So happy the planning is going great and I am confident that you will love SMB, and most importantly you will love having your wedding there! I think that your guests will enjoy it as well! I almost ended up bringing some centerpiece items for the cocktail hour tables since that was one thing that got cut when scaling back on the price quote with Planner 1. But of course it was very last minute and ended up not being able to make room so did without. But I don't think I even really missed anything. I also wanted rose petals to line the aisle but didn't want to pay that much for what they were charging and wasn't sure if they would allow silk rose petals to be used on the beach since they would end up everywhere. But that too was last minute since I hadn't finalized everything with Planner 1 until right before the wedding, which was my fault for not taking care of everything sooner. And I also wanted our bouquets to be all white peonies instead of roses but like you said - way too expensive compared to the roses. And following trend, it was too late to order some nice silk bouquets, which I had seen some really pretty ones on Etsy that I would have gotten if they could have made them in time. Sounds like your wedding is going to be beautiful! I wasn't too picky about the general songs played at the reception, and really only specified songs for the main events, and I still think they played really good music. But I would assume that you could be as specific as you want and I would think that they could make it happen for you. He even came up to me early on to double check if I had any preferences since I had left those parts of the form blank. And then when we were all dancing, there were requests made by some people and they were able to play all of them. If you haven't filled out the DJ form yet or received it from Cecelia, ask her to email it to you. I didn't know about it till I got there and didn't think to ask ahead of time about anything DJ related. Not sure where my brain was lol. But it all worked out and I have no complaints! That way you can have everything covered and just have your iPod as a backup just in case. I kind of remember having a few doubts about their access to songs, etc. but there were no issues with any of the ones I picked. For example, for the last song of the night I specified an older country song by a group that never really made it big and they played it when they were supposed to without any questions...and I didn't return the DJ form to Cecelia until the day of the wedding You can always email me if you'd like to share some of your pics or whatever because I don't know how to post them on here either, unless it's in an album. If interested just shoot me a message with your email and I'll email you back or whichever way you want. Kayla

I cannot say for certain how much $ if you go directly to the salon, but I would assume similar to what they charge if they come to you (not counting the additional vendor fee the resort charges), or at least no more than that?? But I could be very wrong since I never priced the services specifically for the salon. I ate the vendor fee ($100 per stylist so $200 total) because I figured it was worth it! I think it was 350 or 375 for me (hair, airbrush makeup, and lashes) and 150 per BM (hair, airbrush makeup, and lashes), or 90 for either hair or makeup if only one of the services were used. You can always email them to ask. They are pretty quick to respond and Brenda is great to communicate with through email.

Thank you!! And congrats on your upcoming wedding!! Getting very close! I'm sure you are getting very excited I can honestly say that it was well worth the wait and I'm sure you will feel the same! Because even though you might think that it won't really change all that much since having already been together for so long (at least I did), it is different in it's own special way, and definitely a good way! And it was so nice to be able to celebrate it with the most important people in our lives in such a beautiful place. I love coral so of course I am a huge fan of your color choice! Not sure what to tell you exactly about the bonfire situation, guess it depends on how much your people like to drink. I knew that my group would be taking full advantage of the unlimited alcohol and after seeing the aftermath the next day I knew that I had made the right decision. But then again, I also think that if I had scheduled it on the Friday people would have taken it into account that the wedding was the next day, but then I was didn't want them to feel obligated to limit themselves - I knew that everyone attending was so happy to be taking a vacation and I wanted them to be able to enjoy the experience as much as possible. And after the bonfire we made our way to the disco place and closed the place down. So maybe if you just did the bonfire it wouldn't be a problem, since it may have been more of the disco action that did everyone in haha! As for the restaurants, I can't remember mostly which one had what food, or the names of them too well either so not much help in that department. I know I ate at different ones but am not remembering those details all too well - crazy I know! We had only officially planned the bonfire because I wasn't certain how the restaurant situation would pan out until we had arrived and I was like you, I didn't want to have to pay an extra per person charge to have a "private" function for the dinner since we were already doing the bonfire with an open bar and paying to extend the reception an extra hour. But after we learned that they could accommodate our group for an unofficial rehearsal dinner, we just let everyone know about it which wasn't a big deal since our group wasn't super huge. As for making reservations for a large group, the earlier the better, but I am not sure what the maximum amount of people they will allow is. We had 24 total and it worked out for us. I know that the hibatchi restaurant can accommodate 14 people with the possibility of 2 more. When you get there you can talk with your concierge about any reservations that you would like to make and they will take care of arranging it for you if possible and also keep you informed about what options you have according to the number of people in your group since not all of the restaurants can accommodate 20+ people. Our dinner was at the Mexican restaurant and they set us up with 3 long rectangular tables, making 3 rows. There was another option they gave us but can’t remember which restaurant it was or what the seating arrangement would have been like. And you will likely have the same concierge person for the majority of your stay - at least we did for 4/5 of the nights we were there – but it makes it very nice for continuity when trying to get things taken care of. We stayed in a honeymoon suite in the 1700 building and ours was Anabelle – she was so sweet and made sure everything was taken care of. Everyone at the resort was wonderful and went out of their way to make you feel at home, and especially if they knew that you were a SMB bride! Each night at the resort there was some kind of show put on, so pretty much on the free nights (which for us ended up being Friday after the "rehearsal" dinner and Sunday night) we just spread the word that we were planning on doing this or that and would like for anyone to come who was interested. Or if the idea originated when discussed among a small group of us sitting by the pool or eating lunch together, we just made sure to pass the word along to everyone else who wasn't there for the discussion. I didn't want to make a strict schedule for everyone to feel obligated to adhere to. And it ended up working out just fine for us, as we are all pretty laid back. If they have the cirque du soleil show while you are there, I highly recommend it! Well hope that helps some at least! I wish you the best!!! I'm sure it will be amazing and I am looking forward to seeing some photos from your wedding!! Kayla Thanks!! I emailed you a novel lol!! Hope it's more helpful than it is boring haha!!

((WOW this turned out to be really long))... HI! Congrats on the upcoming wedding! My husband and I were just married at SMB on January 10, 2015 and I can definitely share my experience with you! Everything was absolutely perfect and I don't regret any of the choices I made, not to mention nearly all aspects of the wedding and related events exceeded any of the expectations that I had going into it! I wish the same for you and your fiancé, and I'm sure it will be more than perfect for you as well Here is a link to see our photo preview that our photographer posted on their blog…our wedding is the first one you should see (Kayla & Beau – Secrets Maroma Resort) http://saraniweddingsblog.com/ or via this link, whichever way you find easiest…. http://www.saraniphotography.com/portfolio/#/kayla-beau-beach-wedding-at-secrets-maroma Our wedding seems to have a lot of similarities to what you are planning so I hope you find this at least somewhat helpful and/or reassuring that you picked a greatplae ...we were married on the beach and had our reception at the Gazebo Terrace. Cecelia is sooooo sweet and wonderful! Actually my WC was Valeria throughout the whole planning process up until a week or 2 before the wedding when something came up and she would not be available (she was sweet and super helpful as well but never met her). But Cecelia picked up right where she left off and nothing was missed or forgotten. I was really hoping for Cecelia from the beginning anyway because I knew someone who had gotten married there in 2012 (I did not know her at the time so was not in attendance) - and she had told me that there were 2 WC's - Cecelia and Valeria - and she had Valeria but wished she had gotten Cecelia, only because she could tell that Valeria was newer. But from our communication at least, I can say she was great, and Cecelia is just a doll!! Our total guest count was 22 not counting my husband and I (still feels weird to say husband lol since we were together over 9 1/2 years before finally getting married). I think it was the perfect amount of people for us, and everyone that mattered the most to us was there, which made it even more perfect to me. I was initially worried about it looking too "bare" at the ceremony, and especially at the reception, but 24 people was definitely enough to fill the space. We had 6 in the wedding party altogether. And boy did I travel with decorations & a variety of other things lol! At least it seemed like a lot. And miraculously everything made it there in one piece! I depended on my parents and my sister/MOH to help me get everything over there, which was super helpful. And now that it is all said and done, I think if I had to do it again, I would probably bring most of everything again. I had thought about shipping everything there ahead of time but I wasn't too crazy about the idea from the start, and ended up not having everything together early enough anyway to ship it in time. I know that you can use USPS to ship there if you think that it might make you feel a little more confident in shipping everything ahead of time. I know that I had priced Fed Ex flat rate international and it was more expensive than USPS from what I can remember. I would just recommend not waiting till the last minute to come up with a packing plan, or pack for that matter, because that’s what I did and it was a little stressful – I ended up staying up all night before we flew out trying to organize the packing to fit as much as possible. And really had more items to bring than what is listed, but ran out of time to get it all packed before we had to leave (I am a procrastinator by nature obviously lol). Here's a list of the stuff I brought ---- -Welcome bags (large jute tote bags) and the contents (koozies, bottle openers, easy spanish books, travel size suntan lotion & aloe vera gel tubes, lip balm, hangover kits, & candy) -wooden maracas -palm hand fans -6 silver lanterns -cake stand and serving set -toasting glasses for us and the wedding party (8 total) -18 hanging mercury glass votives (was planning on bringing more but ran out of room) -Small wooden box from hobby lobby that looked kind of like a little chest to be used as a part of the guest book setup -an artificial toss bouquet -special sunglasses for us 2, the wedding party, and the 4 parents -Our coordinating collection of wooden signage that I had made through an Etsy shop (thebackporchshoppe) - 2 different larger signs (including the stakes used to set them in the sand!), our chair signs (senor & senora), and 3 6" wooden letters (K, &, for the cake table --> You can see the 2 larger signs I am referring to with these links - these are actually my signs in the pics And if you think you might want some of your own, Darline with TheBackPorchShoppe on Etsy is absolutely fantastic! Not only is her work amazing & high quality, she is so sweet to chat with and offers exceptional customer service And sooo easy to work with - as you can see, mine were a collaborative effort - and she will make exactly what you want! https://www.etsy.com/listing/224118366/beach-wedding-signs-drink-in-hand-toes?ref=shop_home_active_1 https://www.etsy.com/listing/189062575/beach-wedding-sign-names-hibiscus?ref=shop_home_active_2 As far as packing goes....I had to keep in mind that I was depending on my parents and others to get everything back home, including my dress & accessories, his suit, etc. because we were all leaving from Secrets on the Monday following the wedding - our family and friends were going back home and my husband & I were starting our travel adventure towards our honeymoon destination - Coco Plum Island, Belize – which involved taking a cab to Playa del Carmen --> overnight bus to Belize City --> cab to the Belize airport --> plane to Dangriga sea port--> van to the boat landing --> boat to the island! And knew that we would be doing it again in reverse to get back home -- so we were definitely not going to be able to take any extra stuff with us. So here's what I did... I had a large suitcase that I used for the welcome bags and the stuff to go in them. I used the left over room for the hand fans and most of the maracas. That was really the only bag completely dedicated for wedding stuff because the rest was just put in with other bags among clothes, etc. I was responsible for 4 of the 6 lanterns, while my sister packed the other 2. Her and I split the mercury votives which were just mixed in with clothing – which worked out because it added extra cushion for protection. My parents packed some of the sign stuff - I think we had the largest sign and it's stake if I remember correctly - which I packed the sign in a suitcase and put the stake in my dress bag because it was too long to fit in any suitcase - I'll explain below about just how helpful the dress bag can really be lol…. As for my dress – this is what I did and highly recommend it…. I bought this exact black dress bag off of Amazon (see link below) for < $15! And then I put my dress in it (which was already in a clear heavy plastic wedding dress bag). So then I used the black bag to hold other stuff too, while my wedding dress was still protected from anything that I put inside of the outer black bag… http://www.amazon.com/X-large-Breathable-Wedding-Garment-LESSTM/dp/B00CMLIKV6/ref=sr_1_3?ie=UTF8&qid=1425773034&sr=8-3&keywords=black+dress+bag In this bag I was able to fit my wedding dress (which even has fluffy tulle & a train), my shoes in their original shoe box, my Mrs. Beard wedding hanger in the box it was shipped to me in so that it wouldn’t get bent, the stake for one of the signs that wouldn’t fit in the suitcases, and the toss bouquet! I also hung my getting ready shirt and my husband’s ensemble inside – that way I had more room in the bags to pack the other stuff lol and also because you never know that might happen to you checked luggage. One of our friend’s luggage got “misplaced” due to flight schedule changes and he didn’t get it for several days – although he did get it before the wedding. I would call your airline and ask about their policy. We flew United and I had called ahead to ask about the wedding dress situation – they said that they allowed you to hang it in the flight attendant’s closet out of courtesy, and therefore could still bring the allowed carry on and personal item in addition to the dress. I never did get to hang it in a closet but I never had to check it and it didn’t cost any extra....our flight schedule included a small plane from Lafayette, LA to Houston which had no closet to hang it in – so they let me do with the black dress bag the same as they typically do with carry on’s that don’t fit in the overhead bins – kind of like checking the bag for the flight and you pick it up when exiting off the plane. From Houston to Cancun, there was no room in the flight attendant’s closet but I was able to easily fit it into the overhead bin (folded in half) with the other items still packed inside of it. From what I remember, no one in the US airports ever attempted to unzip it – and I kind of remember that the customs people in Mexico went to unzip it (since we got a red light!), but it was a lady and a man, and I made the request that if they had to unzip it to please let us know so that I could make my fiancé turn around because my wedding dress was in there and I didn’t want him to see it. And I honestly can’t remember now if they actually unzipped it – I don’t think they did. But they did open our other bags – which I think supported the wedding story as they saw tote bags with “Hola” painted on them, maracas, and other wedding related stuff. We used Planner 1 for pretty much all of the décor (everything except for what I brought and the dance floor lighting for the gazebo), including the flowers (and bouquets & corsages). Gabi Lavor is the main planner (at least the main one that I dealt with) and she was fabulous! Never met her but she was super attentive to my detailed requests and everything was done even better than I imagined. I didn’t contact her until about a month before the wedding because I was so busy with school and everything that I kind of forgot! But she was super quick to respond and made it all happen. This was my approach…In the beginning I told her everything I wanted and sent her examples of what my dream wedding would include (as I had become a little overly obsessed with details from having so long of a planning period to think about things), and she sent me a very detailed price quote for everything, which of course was way over budget, as I had figured it would be, and then we scaled back from there. And honestly, the total ended up being more than 50% less than where we started and I never once felt like what we ended up with was lacking from what I originally wanted, and all I can say is that I couldn’t imagine how many flowers we would have had if we had not “scaled back” because it was perfect the way that it ended up being done. If you message me I can give you more detailed information about the prices you want to know about, or even email you the price quote(s). The most expensive arrangement was the linear arrangement at the top of the wedding gazebo but man was that a ton of flowers! Not saying they were super cheap but that arrangement (you’ll see it in our pics) was 50% less than the arrangement originally quoted – so that’s what I’m talking about when I say that the amount of flowers for the original quoted arrangement would have been crazy! And then it was broken down and used on the reception tables. They did an amazing job and she was easy to work with as far as trying to get exactly what you want within your budget. And just remember it never hurts to try and bargain! Again, just message me if interested in more details! To rent lanterns from them I felt was pretty pricey though (was quoted ~$500 for 8) so that’s why I ended up bringing my own since I already had them. Oh and another good thing is that she was willing to allow me to incorporate any decorations, etc. that I was planning on bringing and adjusted the quote accordingly and then placed everything as specified when setting up the ceremony and reception sites. Cecelia collected everything from me the evening before the wedding and after that I didn’t have to worry about a thing. And everything was done just as I had specified. And then after the wedding I didn’t have to worry about being responsible for collecting everything that was mine – they collected all my stuff for me (although I did make one last mention of what was mine as they were starting to pick up after the reception just in case) and then they delivered it all to the room the next day, including our left over cake that they had kept refrigerated for us overnight. They are absolutely wonderful and go out of their way to give you the best experience! That’s nice that the ultimate package now comes with a sound system included in the price! We had to pay a couple hundred dollars extra since it wasn’t included in the package when we originally booked. I would definitely recommend it for the ceremony. There is a technician that changes the songs. Cecelia will get your list of songs from you for the all the main parts ahead of time. I actually made the play list on my phone, which she came to my room and got from me about an hour or so before the wedding, and then my phone was given back to one of my family members afterwards. But it doesn’t have to be your phone I am assuming. We gave her a few songs to play while people were sitting and waiting, a song for the wedding party entrance, a song for me, and one for the recessional, and it worked out perfect. I chose the Mexican Trio for cocktail hour and although my husband and I were away taking pics for the majority of that time, we got some fun pics with them and the wedding party, and I know that it was nice entertainment for our guests with a Mexican flare. We used the DJ and MC that the resort typically uses. Cecelia provided me with a questionnaire about song choices (1st dance, father/daughter dance, mother/son dance, cake cutting song, etc.) and names of everyone for the grand entrance announcement. I would strongly recommend using the DJ & MC (it’s 2 different people) rather than just the sound system because that way you have the MC running the show while the DJ plays the songs, which keeps an organized flow for the various events you want to include – like he announced the wedding party and our entrances and then played the songs I requested to go along with it, the first dance, dinner, speeches, cake cutting, bouquet, garter, and last song. I know that if I had to depend on one of my guests to do it (and even though my brother in law is actually a DJ) it would have not flowed as nicely as it did just because everyone was drinking and having a good time themselves. And they played all the songs we requested, which you can even request ahead of time but of course my mind had drawn a blank when trying to fill it out lol. It just makes for a great carefree time for everyone there. We decided to do a bonfire on the beach and it was a nice way to get the celebration started, not to mention allow everyone who had never met before, the chance to meet. I would recommend it! My husband and I arrived on the Wednesday, as well as everyone attending on my side and the majority of our friends, while his family and 2 friends arrived on the Thursday. Our wedding was on the Saturday. I didn’t want to do the bonfire on the Friday night just in case people would end up hung over (we chose to do the open bar option which I though was a nice touch, and included use of the sound system for us to play our own play lists – no technician) so we opted for the Thursday evening from 8-10. And it’s a good thing that we didn’t pick Friday because there were at least 4 people that I can remember that were feeling pretty hung over the next day and never made it out of their room lol. The disco bar place is quite fun and a great way to continue the party all night lol! We ended up there after the bonfire and after the wedding! As far as other events, there weren’t any that were advertised ahead of time but we did have an unofficial “rehearsal dinner” on the Friday night just so everyone could eat together, which surprisingly, the resort was able to accommodate our group size since we had asked about it shortly after our arrival. And we had an unofficial “farewell dinner” on the Sunday evening. Had originally planned on a brunch but the majority of us had decided the night of the wedding that there was no way that we would feel like getting up early. Again, if you have any questions about more details just message me, because I could go on and on, even though I already am, but there’s still more lol. And one thing that I would make sure of is that your photographer (or whoever it is that you will have) is someone you know will be able to capture all the important moments. It went by so fast, kind of like a blur really! It was not even a week later and it seemed like it had been months and the details seemed fuzzy. Especially little things, like whether I had my bouquet with me during our post-ceremony photo session and walking into the reception….I could have sworn I didn’t have it but sure enough I have proof that I did after having seen the preview of our wedding photos! Anyway it’s just the little things that you might miss or forget all about if not captured by your photographer. Not to mention that you can’t possibly see everything going on! We are still waiting on our video and the anticipation is killing me! And P.S. ----- If anyone is looking for a GREAT photographer and videographer/cinematographer I HIGHLY recommend Sarani Photography (Sarani Estrada) and Gallardo Films (Carlos Gallardo)!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! They were absolutely awesome to work with and now that I have seen our photo preview from Sarani – the proof is in the photos of just how amazing her work is! I have already written a review for her on here and you can also check out the review I wrote on her Facebook page – Love her! And even though we have not seen our videos yet, I know Carlos will have an equally amazing creation for us because they are both true artists and the best at what they do!! I couldn't have asked for a better experience with everything! Makes me wish I could get married all over again – to the same man of course