My TA gave me a list based on some of the same qualifications as well as what we told her is important to us, desired guest budget, etc. The list included the Hard Rock, Dreams, Beach Palace. and Paradisus. With regards to hair I want a simple side pony with curls style like the one below. I'll check out the resort stylists on my scouting trip but I don't think it will be too hard since I'll have my hair permed with extensions already placed before I arrive. http://www.aperfectsettingevents.com/wedding-day-do-side-ponytail-hairstyle-for-the-sassy-and-chic-bride/