I have never heard of the reception before you get married. That doesn't mean you can't do if its your wedding and you can celebrate it how you want. If you want to have it before so when you get back you can relax then do be it lol. I am having something very casual when I get back. It's going to be a BBQ and no speaches or sit down meal, just a time to share what our day was like with ppl that couldn't be there. So just showing pics video and having a good time. I don't have money for two receptions lol!!!