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@@calgarybride2015 try your local chinatown....I don't remember if Calgary has one or not...coule be that I spent all my time on the stampede grounds! lol I was looking for fans in chinatown and found some really nice accordion folding fans for $0.79! they fold up pretty small and thin so wouldn't take up much space. I am also saw paper laterns there ranging from $1-2. Worth checking it out!

Canadian brides check out this website: http://www.eventdecordirect.com/ they've got some cool stuff and we don't have to pay for shipping from the states!

Is anyone else's family and friends pressuring them to do an at home reception? I am constantly being asked to have one and am feeling the pressure big time. Part of the reason for going away was to not have anything at home - I have a big family and if you invite one you have to invite them all, and you have to provide dinner if they are coming of from the country and from different countries... Anyone have any advice on how to respond? Saying "I'll think about it" to get them to stop asking isn't going to last very long.

was thinking of just getting dollar store battery operated candles and creating a "votive" out of vellum so they can be covered, b/c they are ugly otherwise! lol and perhaps having handmade paper flowers scattered over the tables. I would have different height candles/votive to create a more dynamic feel to the table. In my opinion it's all about lighting...helps create that magical ambiance.

he is definitely going for the suit. most likely light grey with a light purple long sleeve shirt. Either a suit jacket or a vest, not both. he hasn't decided...yup, he's picking it all himself! We both like it to be a but more formal, but comfort is essential. With some searching I believe both are attainable I haven't thought about what we should ask our guests to wear....we didn't put it on the invitations. maybe we can send something out after everyone has RSVPd @@sbjzmex I like your "resort chic" !

I am leaning towards not having a bridal party. I figure it's enough to ask my girls to come to Mexico and I feel kinda weird asking them to pay for dresses, shoes etc as well anyone else going this route?

@@Bride2b15 it depends on when your wedding date is. A lot of places say to get your dress at least 9mths in advance. I got mine at Kleinfeld in Toronto at the 8.5mth mark...just squeaked in. You can tell them that you are planning on losing weight. They usually order a bigger size anyway for alterations...rather have to get it taken in then let out!

I think it's such a special private moment that I don't really want to share it with everyone. And I like the thought of being able to be at the cocktail party for a bit! I don't think I will mention to anyone that we are seeing each other before....don't want to have to entertain all sorts of questions and commentary on it...which everyone seems to think they are entitled too!!

My fiancee and I would like to see each other before the ceremony starts. We think it would be nice to share that moment privately and to have it captured on film. Has anyone else thought about doing this?

We are staying together the night before, but from breakfast the day of onward we will be separate. I think no matter what there will be the build-up of anticipation and excitement to see each other.

@@RandL2015 I love that your son will be walking you down the aisle - I think that's better than your father You could go on vacation in your own country and be just as at risk. Find a website with the same stats for Canada or the US and I am sure it would be similar. Mexico is in focus a) because it's Mexico people like to fear monger and c) promoting insular tourism to boost the home country's economy. Risk of danger is in most everything you do everyday; but people equate safety with familiarity. What they don't realize is that when you are away and in an unfamiliar environment you tend to be more vigilant and aware of your surroundings - at least that's the case for me!

Any brides having their reception on the carnival terrace planning on hanging decorations from the ceiling? I am thinking either paper lanterns or paper flowers inside clear ornaments. Does anyone have experience in asking?

I used: [email protected] they are both responding from that address. if you haven't emailed there it may be worth a try?

We have actually decided to forgo any speeched. If someone feels the need to say something then sure, but nothing planned. anything that happens will be spontaneous...and alcohol induced of course

you should price out your resort you are going to for your friends wedding...and bonus you get a site visit

All correspondence I have has been with Isela and/or Pilar. I am using the generic now jade email so perhaps it just goes to a mailbox. so far they have been pretty good about responding within 24hrs...except for the last communication which took a week. @@Meg32IL you should definitely email again.

I think that is partially what they are hoping for - that we change our minds.....but it's already booked and some people have put deposits down. there is still time for them to have a last minute change of heart...it would be great, but can't hold my breath for that! @@jackielemman you are so right! He's the one I'm going to be focusing and thinking about walking down the aisle everyone else will be white noise lol

Seriously, what is wrong with people!? They need to get it together! Thanks for you support

No aunt or uncles coming either. yes, they are not coming simply b/c it's Mexico...on principle. It's been hard but ultimately I have realized that their decision not to attend is something they will have to live with for the rest of their lives. I think I will just end up walking down solo with my head held high!

Thanks!

Both my mom and dad are not going to be attending my wedding in April - because they don't want to come to Mexico. What do you guys think about walking down the aisle alone? Would that be strange?

@@Meg32IL so I guess it's not parents appropriate? lol also, I saw that you have rented a boat for your guests and said that this could be done through the resort - do you think it would be better to wait and book something there or do it before hand?

Hi Lovely Brides to Be, I am getting married at Now Jade on April 29th and have chosen the Divine Package. Not sure how many guests since we are still waiting on RSVPs. I was wondering if anyone has been/heard of reviews of Coco Bongo? I was thinking about planning a post-wedding night out there but wondering what it's like. Thanks!

I am considering Huracan as well! But I haven't received any info back yet.... would you mind sharing your prices with me? My email is [email protected] If I hear back I will let you know!

Hello Fellow Brides! I am planning my wedding for Feb 2015 (this date is flexible) and have fallen in love with Jellyfish. Can someone send me a price list? [email protected] We are looking between 30-40 guests. I have also emailed Mayte and not received a response...but considering the recent tragedy I'm not expecting a response soon. Thanks!!