I've just ordered a dress from this site, and there are a ton of people on this blog that have used them as well. Check it out. http://www.dhgate.com/product/actual-image-luxury-inbal-dror-lace-appliqued/166187926.html
I also recently ordered a 2013 Inbal Dror dress from DHGate. It's expected to arrive in about 19 more days. I've also read through these threads and asked to see pictures. I didn't ask for any special customization. The actual seller is Hand Mi Hand with Happiness and here is a pic. I'll keep this blog updated as I get more updates/pics and then the actual dress.