I'm still trying to decide.
This is my second marriage also. My legal name is my maiden (but many work people don't know this). My family is very connected so using my maiden name has a lot of advantages and it works in my favor so I never did completely let it go.
However I always used my married name at work and everyone knows me by this name although some are aware of my maiden because I would sometimes hyphenate it.
So in all actuality, I have 3 aliases. My maiden, my 1st married name, and a hyphenated version of the two.
Soon I will have a fourth with this new last name.
Boy oh Boy! This thread just helped me realize I have way too much craziness going on... I need to clean this up and decide on 1 (or maybe 2). LOL
I'm probably, maybe going to hyphenate my maiden and new last name . Job folks will adjust.