We originally thought that a budget of about $10,000 would be good, FI's parents decided to pay for our trip so that helps out so so much! We were pretty shocked about it in the beginning! But looking at it now, we will have at least 80 people attending so that alone at least doubles the cost of the reception. We still know that the DW will be much more reasonable than having a wedding at home tough! In the end, I think we will be closer to $15,000 with all costs in.