THANK YOU FOR THOSE DETAILS! I'm super new to this site and your thread is really helping me I have a terribly tacky question for you, as my finance and I are trying to work out our dw budget --- with the options you ended up choosing for your wedding/ceremony/welcome/cocktail/brunch, can you give me a ball park number I would expect to spend if our guests were half the amount of yours??? I want to get married at HRPC and our budget is around $20,000. Do you think that's doable??? THANK YOU SO SO SO MUCH! MaggieC